How do i get out of being best friends with someone!?
Posted Nov 8, 2011 by kitty0236 | 464 views | 7 comments
This probably sounds so bitchy, but i need to let it out, or its all going to brew out and spill. I hate my 'best friend' We have known each other since we were 3. Now 12, both 13 in 2 weeks, i've had enough. I cant bear it. Her natural cocky-ness, her over competivtive attitude, her rudeness, and taking me for granted. Her Jelousy on every thing, her nosyness and spite. I just hate it. My other friends are realising what a nasty person she is. No-body in our class ikes her. I take pitty on hersomtimes, but she just spits it back at me. I dont want to be her friend anymore, but i dont know how to get out of being her friends. We've known each other for so long, our parents are so close, and she lives 5mins away from me. I dont know what to do:(
Commented Jan 31, 2012 by anonymous
haha
Commented Jan 30, 2012 by anonymous
punch her i the vagina with your tongue
Commented Nov 27, 2011 by anonymous
I completely agree!!
Commented Nov 17, 2011 by kitty0236
Thankyou:)
Commented Nov 13, 2011 by anonymous
The best way is to actuallt avoid her, I did that with some of my best friends though now I have to take a class with them now. Ugh! Don't get me wrong but when you have to deal with someone who is always complaining about how her life sucks, you just wanna avoid the hell out of her.
Commented Nov 13, 2011 by anonymous
oops, just noticed an error in my post, after 'good & bad' it should read: & you have to respect one another. Not '& you & respect...' sorry.
Commented Nov 13, 2011 by anonymous
Just tell her about how you're feeling. If you two are real friends you should be able to tell each other EVERYTHING, including things you don't like about each other and work on the issues together. Maybe you can help her become a better person and a better friend. Perhaps she doesn't realize how her behavior is affecting others, including you. If she's unwilling to talk with you about these issues, or unwilling to at least make changes in the way she treats you, then I'm sorry sweetie, but she's not a real friend. I am 43, I know what I am talking about here. Ask any of my friends and they will tell you I know what it takes to be a real friend to others. You cannot judge, put down, take advantage of, and in general be unkind to your friends. You have to be there for each other through EVERYTHING, good or bad & you & respect one another. Treat your friends like you treat yourself, be good to them & they will be your true friend for life! Friends have each others backs, not stab each other in the back. I hope this helps you and that your future friendships will be stronger & healthier. Good Luck