i have a hatred of my husband today. he asked me what bills needed to be paid because he earned 113 this week. we have 3 kids and he hasnt had ft employment since 2001. i have been responsible for all the bills since this date. he will not work. he just will not. in sept of this year i left my job of almost 4 yrs for another job. the other job was horrible and i had to quit. i have been on the computer daily for 1 month looking for work. my husband lies in front of thr tv laughing and acting like our home does not have needs. he is lazy, stink, stupid and i sincerely hate him at this minute. what type of man does these things. he is also a liar.. he has had affairs and lied about them. ran up his mothers credit cards to 10k. she is retired and can barely afford to pay them back. he started school to get student loan money and then withdrew twice. he lied to the school officals and said he was in a severe car accident and had to be admitted to the hospital. then when they took pity upon him he lied again and stated he was rreadmitted to the hospital because of the accident. he has also lied about why he was terminated from the job in 2001. we live in one state and he told his mother and i that he neede money to travel to the state where he last worked because he has a court case against the former employer. there was no court case he just wanted to get away from his responsibilities. he has also lied numerous times about having a ft job offer and nothing has transpired. i haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaattttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttttteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee what he has done to this family. my children who are all sons by the way feel angry looking at him and think im a fool for hanging around. i am praying for the strength to just walk away.