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Again, you make it seem as though I agree with what she has done, while I still do not. Also, you see, in this country, unless you leave a bruise or a mark lasting more than a day on the child there is no abuse. Another point here is that yelling at your child is not abuse. Also, in most states it is ok to slap your child, an open hand policy they say. Never to strike with a closed fist or the back of your hand. So, I ask you, where is the abuse? She never said with what amount of force she had slapped her child. So, I assume that you assume that she slapped him with full force correct? My guess is that if she had done so, unless this 5 year old were a very large 5 year old, he more than likely would have been knocked clear out. I believe she probably just gave him a slap to the face that he hardly felt and that it simply startled him that 'mommy hit him' and over reacted a bit just as his mother did. Maybe I'm wrong.. Who knows? Certainly not you. When she states hat her 5 year old son is the most unreasonable person she has ever met may be that is the truth. Does that give her the right to slap him? In her oppinion, yes. In yours, no. In mine, she is the parent she will do as she pleases. I was slapped as a child, am I mentally or physically scarred form this? Do I carry a hurt with in me from the situation? No. I remember it, yes. Though, it is no bother to me now. I had amazing, loving parents. I grew up just fine. If some one were to slap me would I press charges and have them thrown in prison? No. I would simply carry on with my life. Violence is nature.
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I know quite a number of people who have made it far in life and are very successful. Also, I would like to point out, sex does not lead a person to do drugs. That persons decision to do drugs is what leads them to do drugs. Also, std's can be transferred in a number of ways, sharing a drink with a friend, transfer during birth mother to child, sometimes even in the line of work, especially as a doctor the risk of contracting certain diseases is high. Accidentally being stuck by a needle is your greatest risk in most cases. I have not been 'driven off the track to success by sex' I'm 20 years old and have ome of the better things in life do to my own success, college and a growing career path, my own house and vehicle since the age of 18. I have been sexually active since the age of 16, not to mention the fact that I had my innocence taken from me as a child so I was introduced to certain things early in my life that had little effect on what I do and where I am going now. I do not carry any std's nor do I have children. I do not do drugs and I am on the 'right path' in life, sex or no sex. You live the life you create for yourself, with what ever influence you choose to let guide you. So take your child's natural given sexuality and abilities to reproduce will it make them a better human? Who knows. I do not believe so.
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Either you don't understand English or you're just plain incompitant. I never said the child will forget but he will certainly get over it. Like I said I've been in his position before. I also stated she is in no way right in her actions. Also, as I stated, you can not always judge how someone feels towards another person based off their words, especially when the person is upset or angry. Argue this point as much as you'd like but, one day you will do and see. In good time my dear. You stated the best way to foster good behavior is to ignore bad behavior in a way of sarcasm correct? So, you do not expect her to ignore her child's poor behavior right? Yes, she took it to far. Yes, there are better ways she could have handled the situation and so on, but, again we are brought to.. She is human, humans make mistakes. Is she right? No. Looking back now she probably realizes this and sees how she ould have done differently here. Her words are clearly words of anger, but I do not see them as being that of hate. Don't like it? Move the hell on. ;) thanks.
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