when is it 2 much..or...should someone just walk away?
Posted Sep 18, 2011 by anonymous | 381 views | 4 comments
i married a man 2 yrs ago. i said for better or worse, but what if the worse starts out weighing the better? he is bi polar and i am constantly walking on eggshells every morning as soon as my feet hit the floor. there is no doing anything correct. he WILL find somthing wrong. when he yells it is more like a roar...and i cant actually feel it throughout my whole body! this is just over little stuff!! one minute or day he can be so wonderful and loving(the man i married) and the next.....CRAZY and hurtfull. i have become this nervous moody person when i used to be fun loving and easy going. i miss me..if that makes any sence? so i ask...when is it okay to walk away?
Commented Sep 23, 2011 by anonymous
thank you all. i guess i know what i need to do. we have tried a vacation, and he has promised to get help(but only went once)he is on meds, but they help little. i have to learn to deal with all this or move on. yesterday he lashed out at a complete stranger and embarest me so. we could not even go out to dinner. again....thanks all. atleast now i feel i am not the problem or not understanding enough. :)
Commented Sep 20, 2011 by anonymous
The question Is did You marry a devil or A Man? false Prophets will try to get Women to marry a tall rich devil. These devils will start out nice then get mean but If They are generally nice to You but have occasional tantrum then Its the Illuminati or a virus getting Into Their mind maybe a vacation might help a sense of humour helps too.
Commented Sep 19, 2011 by anonymous
It is okay to walk away when you can't take it anymore and are unhappy all the time. He needs help. You need to tell him when he is normal how hurtful and damaging his actions are. If he loves you, he will see that he has an obligation to seek medical help to try and minimize those outbursts. Despite the fact that he may be ill and can't help himself, you can't subject yourself to that type of toxic environment any more. It's changed who you are for the worse. Exhaust all avenues and options. If all else fails and you choose to leave, at least you can do so knowing you tried everything to save your marriage.
Commented Sep 19, 2011 by anonymous
I'd just tell him straight up, either get help or he is history.