What do you guys think
Posted Jan 1, 2014 by anonymous | 499 views | 14 comments
so I accepted being friends with benefits with this guy I barely know just to forget about being in love with my close friend it hadn't worked out since my friend is all I think about.this guy im messing around with made it clear that he didn't want anything serious and si did I but after a few weeks of getting a little sexual I told him I was a virgin and I was not willing to loose it to him he agreed and said he respected my decision. and after a while he tells me that I make him feel good and sometimes he just kisses me and tells me he wishes we can just cuddle. I'm scared he is getting feelings for me because I really don't like him like that and I've been trying to avoid him for like 2 months already but I don't think he gets the message since he keeps on texting me almost every week. and last time I told him I couldn't see him cause I had plans with one of my friend he seemed a little jealous and said good luck with "your friend".I don't know what to think cause he was the one that started all this friends with benefits relationship and said he didn't want anything serious.
Commented Feb 1, 2014 by anonymous
update: so a while after I posted this I stopped seeing him and this relationship is now over.it was the best cause im not ready for a relationship. he still texts me some times and tries to hangout with me but I just reject it. I feel better and without him and that worrying feeling.
Commented Feb 1, 2014 by Rico
Sometimes you have to cut the strings all together. If you want your relationship to end then you are going to have to let him know and stop communicating to him altogether. He is going to need space from you to get over it.
Commented Jan 30, 2014 by anonymous
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Commented Jan 29, 2014 by anonymous
I think you're too young to be on the internet. Go read a book.
Commented Jan 3, 2014 by anonymous
It's pretty easy to end it, unless you, too, have feelings for him. Tell him you only wanted a fuck buddy and that, no matter what he says or believes, you think he's getting too close. If you really are interested in no-strings sex, it won't matter if you hurt him a bit over this. This is what "no strings" means.
Commented Jan 3, 2014 by anonymous
I don't know how to end this relationship every time i try he some how convinces me not to
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
You've got to let this "FWB" go quickly, because he's going to continue to develop feelings for you. If you really want a FWB, you need to look somewhere else to get it. If you are truly looking for some amazing no-strings sex, I'd love to meet you, because I can definitely fuck without falling in love.
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
then be gentle when letting your FWB know don't crush him too badly and go for the other guy. the heart wants what the heart wants. best of luck.
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
You need to take the relationship very seriously.
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
Take the help of your friend for this issue.
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
yeah thats true...but I really love someone else and I dont want this other guy to get hurt
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
it still happens it's human nature to fall in love you can't prevent it. I fell in love with my fuck buddy and we date now and I gotta say it's the best thing that ever happened to me.
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
I even told him that I didn't want to be in this relationship because of that reason but he convinced me it wasn't going to happen
Commented Jan 2, 2014 by anonymous
friends with benefits never works someone always falls in love... trust me I know...