I've been friends with this girl for YEARS. I even lived with her for a while during high school. I remember even then, she would say bad things about me. But I would have too. She had a job, I did not. I was very obsessive about guys, and complained to her a lot. But that's how teenagers are, I guess, and She should have said something if she were a good friend. I moved out because she kept ditching me all the time, saying she had to work late and such, but I knew better. One week, we were supposed to be dog sitting for her sister and she was going to drive me out there that evening (the sister lived a good 10-15 miles out of town). When she was supposed to be 'off' I called. And called. No answer. Being the responsible one, I had no other choice but to walk out there. On my way out there, her and the friend she always ditched me to be with drove straight past me. Didn't even slow down. When I confronted them, they just said they didn't see me. Yeah, ok. Anyway, years later and we're still friends, I've brushed it off, and we got into drugs a small bit. We both ended up in abusive relationships and lucky for her, she was able to get out before me. Quit the drug scene altogether and continued her job as a waitress, bought a nice new car, etc. Me, I ended up with a couple felonies because the abusive guy I dated said he would kill me if he went down alone. All I got was probation, while he got 7 years. I'm currently fighting the charges and have been drug free for 2 years - but she still acts high and mighty, like she's better than me. We have each other on facebook and she always has something nasty to subtly hint at me. Never directly, but always has to so with who I am, something I said, or did. She's really good friends with one of my enemies (who does lots of drugs!) We used to bad talk her back in high school though.. I just don't know what to do. I don't want to lose her as a friend but I feel like I already have. And, sadly, that makes me feel vengeful!! :'( also, my phone wouldn't let me view more than like 4 categories so I got stuck with health & lifestyle.