The "Best" Friend
Posted Feb 4, 2013 by anonymous | 382 views | 5 comments
It's really hard to live with my "best" friend and her new best friend. Why? Because we all were friends until we weren't and I didn't get the memo, anything I do now is out of jealousy, everything I say and don't say is out of spite, and I am trying to make them unhappy because I don't feel the need to ask for every detail of their lives. I find it funny that rather than trying to work what ever this is out, I am told that I don't care about someone I have known since 4th grade and I'm throwing out the friendship. It's ironic that she treats me this way when a few weeks ago she was telling me I don't deserve to be treated like a piece of crap. I feel uncomfortable in my own home now. And I can't talk to them about it because anytime I try, I am ganged up on and told I am the cause for the tension and I am the one to blame. I don't understand why it became a competition you were determined to win. We are allowed more than one friend. We are able to embrace our differences. At least, I thought we were. Is it because I don't fit your strict morals? Is it because I like to drink and go out? Is it because you've adopted your favorite parts of my personality and are done? Is it because I'm not going to grad school like you? Is it because I think marriage is a quick fix for your relational problems? So much for "I'll always be here for you" and "You can tell me anything, I promise I won't be angry or judge." I wish someone could tell me what ignited this wildfire of a situation. I miss my friend. I miss my sister. It makes me really sad that you won't even hear me anymore.
Commented Mar 7, 2013 by anonymous
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Commented Mar 4, 2013 by anonymous
unfortunately, it depends on the peyalr you intend to play it on. i've been doing this for a while and i loan discs to many people, the only discs that seems to play on every peyalr are dvd-r. the problem is now movies are too long to use regular dvds and the only dual layers readily availavle are dvd+r. these only work on high end peyalrs. luckily i found a site that has dvd-r dual layer dvds,. it's trial and error for your needs tho.
Commented Feb 4, 2013 by anonymous
Wot, no sex?
Commented Feb 4, 2013 by anonymous
Girls can be so caddy and ridiculous sometimes. And yes there are ones out there that seem to think they can only have one friend or they try to compete with a new friends existing friends like it's a contest. As yourself if you are part of this issue, do you feel left behind and so you ignore them? Do you show no interest because they don't include you or you do have jealousy of the new friend? You are human so admitting these things doesn't make you a terrible person. If you truly want to save your friendship be honest with yourself on how youre handling their friendship. If you truly feel none of these things then it sounds like your roomies need to grow up and maybe you should consider moving out. Some friends are only in your life for a period of time and then life takes over. People outgrow each other too so it's possible the two of you have less in common than before.
Commented Feb 4, 2013 by anonymous
Go back to your family & live with them.