Should I stay or should I go ?
Posted Oct 27, 2011 by SilentSarrow1 | 431 views | 3 comments
Ive been with my boyfriend for 14 months I love him but I think we are two totally different people. I wanna be a doctor but currently I'm in high school but I get all 90s and I'm in Advanced Placement classes. I'm serious about my schoolwork and I'm hungry for college and it's challenges. On the other hand my boyfriend is 18 dropped out of high school and is currently trying to get a GED. He has no job and is currently living off his settlement money from a car accident. He buys me everything I want and I appreciate it but at the end of the day he doesn't follow through with his plans. All day he stay home and smokes weed and sleep. The sex is GREAT but college is approaching. So the question is do I go away for college or stay in NY with him and go to a NYC college. I need honest advise for honest people.
Commented Oct 30, 2011 by anonymous
You are too young to make such a serious decision to remain with this guy. He is lazy and uninspired. You have your entire life ahead of you. You were probably attracted to his bad boy image at first but that gets really tiring after a while. As you grow and develop as a young lady, you will see how stagnant he has become. You yearn for opportunity and education and information - a sign that you are intelligent and ambitious. Follow your path. If at the end of your journey, he is still there and you still want to be with him, then you will have accomplished your goals and still be with him. But to set aside your goals for a man who does not sound like he's worth it is sheer foolishness. Don't waste this chance for a better life. The longer you wait to follow your dreams, the more the dream fades and regret sets in. Do it while you can. True love will wait. Good luck young lady!
Commented Oct 29, 2011 by anonymous
trust me!!! there is GREAT SEX in college.....sex he can not know yet! he is a loser with no life goals. do you really want to support a loser? that is what you will do IF you become a doc...you will be paying for sex by supporting him all his life. as he will not work, spend your money, and leave you with regret! NEVER let someone hold you back.....all this means is he CANNOT possibally love you, or he would be pushing you to do all you can for yourself! he is only buying you things, so you will return the favor later....you ar a GREAT payday for him in the future as he will just continue to be a bum and hang on 2 your accomplishmeants and money later! GIVE THE LOSER THE SLIP! take care of you, exceed your goals and then worry about a life parnter.....then and only then will you be able to find the one you deserve and deserve a woman like you!
Commented Oct 27, 2011 by anonymous
Think...As someone who wants to practice medicine do you advocate recreational drug usage ? What will he do when his money runs out ? Great sex is not a reason to stay with a loser. Dump the pothead, buy a vibrator, and go to college.