He's cheating on me...tomorrow.
Posted Oct 28, 2011 by anonymous | 536 views | 4 comments
My long time live in boyfriend has a trip planned for tomorrow. He is driving for 3 hours to see a buddy who is meeting him halfway to where he lives. Wouldn't be a big deal except this is so far outside his usual personality. And he has a history of talking to other women online, setting up meetings then not showing up due to guilt or insufficient opportunity or whatever. Everytime he talks to this "guy" he goes outside with his cell to do it. Also not like him. We have been having a hard time lately and arguing a lot, but trying to work it out. Yesterday, he seemed suddenly nicer and more affectionate. Today he shaved, which he does like NEVER. We have 3 kids together and we have been together for years. We are in our thirties, for God's sake. We aren't kids. I just have a bad feeling he is going to spend the day with a woman he either already knew as he lived in that area before he knew me, or someone he met online. I just know it. Now what?
Commented Oct 29, 2011 by anonymous
Two thoughts on this: 1) Find out what he is really doing by setting up a fake profile on whatever site he is using and arranging a meeting with him. See if he goes, and if he does show up, it will be you, and you will have an opportunity to get the issue out on the table. 2) If it turns out that he does have a problem with adultery (if you are married), and wants to try and stop you are the key. Turn up the heat, and make him beg for you rather than anyone else. Men are retards and need a reminder of what they have sometimes. Good luck. :)
Commented Oct 29, 2011 by anonymous
why were you not invited? tell him you found a sitter or whatever, and tell him you decided you never get away 2gether and this would be the perfect chance. tell him somone that is so great a friend to him ...that he is traveling to meet, must be someone you would love to meet as well....afterall you and he are together and his friends are important to you aswell! :) if he says no....then you know it's time to get out of this relationship. move on before you waste anymore of your precious time!
Commented Oct 29, 2011 by anonymous
while he is gone leave him.
Commented Oct 28, 2011 by anonymous
Sounds like your imagination is getting the best of you.