SEVERE Hearbreak+ College Debt$+ My Dad:(
Posted Sep 16, 2012 by MadisSad | 598 views | 2 comments
Here's MY sad story, I didn't graduate college here's why: I took some online classes, overwhelmed myself with 15 credit hours of online classes thinking they would be a breeze but they weren't and I was BEYOND overwhelmed so I dropped a few, which I found out takes away your Pell Grant, which made me owe money to the university, which made me unable to apply for another semester of college--I'm in tremendous debt and even though I have waitress and office experience I can't get a job ANYWHERE! But WAIT there's more: I was dating a guy I've been BEST FRIENDS WITH since I was 5 years old, we dated for 4.5 years and then he DUMPS me! Then he says he wants to fix things but we should rebuild our friendship first! He keeps in touch with me enough to insure that I don't start dating someone else,starts acting really sweet, says to trust him because "Rebuilding our friendship first will work, we WILL get back together soon." So, I trusted him, and then 3 weeks later,--(a few days after my dad had a severe stroke)--, my ex throws all my belongings I had at his apartment into my car and drives away and I have yet to hear from him since! So to sum this all up, I couldn't finish college, can't get a job, a guy I LITERALLY can't remember life without(my best friend), BRUTALLY DUMPS ME and while all of this is going on my dad has a severe stroke!
Commented Sep 17, 2012 by anonymous
thats pretty funny , bet i can top that.
Commented Sep 17, 2012 by anonymous
life can be so so hard at times. I feel your anguish. it helps me to realize that we are all on a journey...each person is on their own journey to learn, make mistakes, have regrets and lose things that gave us comfort. I believe God knows why we have to go through these things. and that if we didn't we couldn't grow spiritually. we have to let the worry go and just see what He has in store for us and except the devastating harsh lessons that we MUST endure. Some day, when we've suffered and endured and learned the lessons that have shaped our souls...we can then go Home where there will be peace, love and we will be safe. it really helps to watch near death experiences on you tube...it helped me understand that this hard life is temporary. I wish I could make everything go back to the good days for you and your family, but I know there's a reason for these things. and your ex...on his journey will be accountable for the things he chooses to do...as will all of us. God bless you and give you the wisdom to endure these trials (hugs)