
Possible end of marriage
Posted Feb 18, 2012 by anonymous | 562 views | 4 comments
My wife informed me tonight that she is not sure that she wants to be married to me anymore. I am completely blown away. I am seriously thinking about doing something stupid, my wife is my world. I have a gun sitting next to me and really just want to shoot myself. Igt takes every part of my being not to pull the trigger. I am still not sure if I will make it through the night
Commented Feb 20, 2012 by anonymous
Don't do any kind of foolish thing as such killing yourself. If She want to break the relationship then ask what is the reason behind it & if she is upset from you about specific thing, try to sort out the matter by talking with her. Even the matter dosen't sort out it is not the end of the life, look forward & have a new start of life.
Commented Feb 18, 2012 by anonymous
You must be deeply paranoid and unhappy running around wondering if the person next to you is 'more powerful'
Commented Feb 18, 2012 by anonymous
Fuck her! Listen, relationships are a power struggle. Whoever loves the least is the one that holds all the power. Instead of being all needy, the solution is to appear less needy than her. Instead of begging her to stay, say something like 'Well, ok, if that's what you want then I'm ok with it. ' Go out that night and at least pretend to have a social life. This will drive her up a wall. Once she sees you having fun without her, she'll suddenly discover that 'She wants to try again' or however she'd put it. Even if it's killing you inside to pull it off, DO IT! I promise you the results will be much better than if you walk around the house all weepy eyed talking about killing yourself.
Commented Feb 18, 2012 by anonymous
No point in killing yourself over her. Yeah you will hurt for a while, really, really hurt. But you'll love again. I went through something close to this myself. It gets better and brighter. Don't take a permanent solution to a temporary problem.