I went on vacation with a friend and a friend of hers. I was pissed cause on the night of my friend's birthday the other girl basically ignored our friend for some guy she had met 2 days before...even ignoring my friend crying because she was sad to be leaving her family (we were on vacation visiting them and leaving for home which is about 8 flying hours away). So when the other girl was going to ditch us for the guy I told her she was being selfish and she got all pissy so I said for her to F-off and forget it, but she kept going on, and I finally just walked away and she left with the guy. Because we were staying at my friend's parent's and the girl didn't have a key we had to wait up til 5 am for her to get back to let her in (we had been home at 3 and I stayed up so my friend wouldn't have to wait alone). She FINALLY got back and was saying that she felt she had done nothing wrong and was verbally 'attacked' and wouldn't back down even when our mutual friend said that it had hurt her feelings that the other girl basically ignored her all night when we were out celebrating her birthday!! She just got all ridiculous about how she was in the right and when I tried to say that she was being extremely selfish there were other words exchanged about her behaviour and she went and told me it didn't matter what I said cause I was in the wrong and had attacked her. THEN she went and yelled at me and called me fat!! Now, I'm not a small girl and I'm trying to get in better shape, but I am not huge and I used to be anorexic, so I'd rather weigh a bit more than a bit less at this point in my life. I was SO ANGRY!! Everything I said to her was about how she was behaving not anything nasty about her as a person, and then she does that. To top it off, I have to spend the next 5 days of vacation with her so I had to suck it up and be nice, even though the entire time I was feeling like shit about what she had said. Now we're back so I don't have to deal with her every day but she just moved in with our mutual friend who we went on vacation with (who's been one of my best friends for a couple of years), so I'm going to have to go on sucking it up or risk having problems with my friend cause she is stuck in a lease with this girl, and has basically moved past the whole thing. It just PISSES ME RIGHT OFF that this girl has now made me feel inferior and insecure in any way, because that is something I worked hard to get over when I was dealing with the eating disorder. I'm going to do my best to just avoid being around her and feel good about the fact that even though she got so personal I somewhat kept my cool and at least didn't retaliate in kind. Needless to say, I now know why even though I've known this girl for quite some time I never became good friends with her...just goes to show my instincts about people are pretty accurate. I had to bitch about this somewhere cause all the people I could bitch about her to either know her (so it's not fair to them) or are male, so don't get how nasty her making a weight comment was. At least I feel like I've gotten it off my chest a bit now.