So I am on this Match.com thing. It's getting to be an expensive lesson at $50 a month to find out that women don't find me interesting. Maybe I should clarify at least attractive women. I thought I was at least a decent enough looking gentleman. At least enough to pique a nice young lady's interest to stop by. I put up what I felt was a heartfelt, thoughtful representation of who I am. But as usual it seems the nice guys finish last. No it's not just the attractive girl I would be looking for. I come across crazy stuff all the time from what would otherwise be an attractvie lady. But either because they are of the female gender or especially hot they get to put all sorts of wierd stuff in there. From income requirements of 100k +. Fashion issues with guys. Why is that so important to put in there shoe selection issues? No games? If a person was into 'playing games' do you think they would actually tell you? They are always looking for the same trite qualities. Adventerous, must have a passport. While I am not poor to say the least but who has the disposable income to travel the world? I would love to do that but at my age finding a single male friend to do that with is difficult. The usual I want this but not that qualities. Must be confident but not cocky, must be aggressive but not overbearing. When describing themselves it's usually the equivalent of I am a tough chick and know what I want and no one is going to stop me. Well more power to you but who really cares if deep down you are not a decent human being. Put something in your profile to convince me that you are. Who cares what religion you are or want in a guy if you can't be nice to the person standing next to you or let the person in the car to the side pull in front of you? Yes I am looking for an attractive girl who is conscious of her body. But the only girls I seem to attract are not what I consider attractive when they are overweight. To be fair I am sure that my profile must seem a bit dud-like. I don't have a whole lot of pizazz in there like GO DAWGS! I am afraid my social life is the victim of a failed marriage in which I let everything ride on that and a subsequent complete immersion into a job for which I put everything into it with minimal returns kind of like my marriage...oops. I simply was too nice. Never said no and did anything and everything I could for people. I put that before myself. So now I am still on Match and unfortunately out of work because of some not so nice god fearing people, so even if anything in this rant rings true I recognize I wouldn't be the catch of the day for some. Got to keep that income going since that what ultimately seems important. Not who I raally am and how much I care for the people around me. I don't believe in god (yes a small g) for many reasons but ultimately I believe I am a better person than most simply because I choose to be. Not because someone is telling me. So if you have read this far and would like to critique my profile you can find me at agp1969. I figure even if I am not dating anyone I can inflate me who's viewed me #!