Love shouldn't be this complicated
Posted Jul 23, 2011 by SilentSarrow1 | 416 views | 2 comments
I'm 15 years old and my bf is 18 we've been together for almost a year. I love him so much and he does too he tells me I'm the prettiest girl he ever saw even tho prettier girls tried to persue him but nonetheless he chose me. His family hates me because they are stupid They still believe they are still in Haiti and think we should follow the same rules from there. Meaning women are inferior to the males and I'm american and believe everybody is equal. My bf recently came into some money and he bought me all these great gifts but I could care less my family got money. But I digress my bf has a a dark side he gets angry if I say certain things and he won't communicate. It bothers me so much that I have to censor myself. Sometimes i ponder to leave but if I do then I won't have any friends because he's my onlynfriend ever since I moved. Idk if this relationship is good anymore the tension can be cut by a knife sometimes I try to tlk it put but he says I'm delusional what should I do ?
Commented Jul 25, 2011 by anonymous
trust me, there are billions of people out there, and if there is something big like this that makes you uncomfortable, even if it is slightly small too. as much as you love them, i am sorry to say you have not met the right person for you. the person you need is someone who listens to you will do anything for you, someone you can say anything too and know they will listen, but most of all someone you ALWAYS are comfortable around. a good way to tell if you have met the right person is whether you have any doubts about your relationship. if so, even a little, then honestly you should move on. i don't believe you should do what i say, do what is in your heart, but if you can't change these problems, then you might be very happy later down the road.
Commented Jul 23, 2011 by anonymous
Weigh the pros and cons of your relationship. Ultimately, if there are more bad times than good or you feel like you can not be yourself around him, you need to move on. You are very young and have your whole life ahead of you. The odds of you having found your future husband are slim to none. Yes, you feel like you are in love now but you have the whole world to explore and hundreds or new people to meet. If you go to college/university, get a job, you will meet them. No one, regardless of age/race or gender needs to deal with drama unless that is what you choose. A loving relationship does require work and nuturing but it should not be that hard.