I would travel. Look for something all over the world. Except you don't know what it is. You'll know when you find it.

AGREEEEEE.

You sound like many stars who have attained fame and wealth. Suck it up you whiney prick! Be thankful for what life has handed you. Furthermore, be thankful you aren't one of those out on the street with nothing to your name and wondering where your next meal will come from. I have no sympathy for you, ingrate!

you spent so much time and effort trying to build a 'successful' life you don't know what to do with it now you have it. happiness just doesn't get handed to you on a platter every day nor is it yours by right. happiness is a conscious decision. you decide to be happy and work at it like everything else. start with the small things. when you wake up, make an effort to look at your wife and see how beautiful she is. even if it's just for two minutes. take notice of all the many small luxuries your money has brought instead of just treating them like a habit. if you can't manage that, then suck it up princess and continue being miserable and depressed because no amount of medication, stuff or holidays is going to help.

Clearly your life has told a story. (Money does not bring happiness) I will take this into account as I make decisions in my own life. Curious Question: Would you burn all your money if it meant you could fall in love with someone that loved you back?

find a girl you really like, have fun with her. Laugh, eat out, go to the beach. Do thinks you like. AND have sex. That helps the nerves. It brings you cose to smeone. It is a necessry part of life. Give yourself to her, and her to you. Share.

Ok so you're a depressed cunt who's successful as you say? Well give it all up then ! Yeah right, you fucking can't because you ain't sucsesful as you make out otherwise you would have sought paid, professional advice by now instead of using this dumbass site. You're a loser without a pot to piss in nor a penny to you're name are you not ! Here's some free advice, grow up you cunt !!! Either that or take some Potassium Cynaide you motherfucker !!!

You're symptoms are classical mild-severe depression symptoms. I know because I've suffered myself. Like you I had no reason to be depressed but a confluence of circumstances meant my life became extremely stressful and gradually I stopped coping. Seek professional help. I founf cognitive behaviour therapy very useful. Don't worry that the first thing someone will do is to prescribe drugs. You don't need to feel like this but you probably need help to get voer it in the long term. Good luck.

Life is tough. And it does fuck everyone over. We just have to find new things to do. Or find that one thing in your life to keep you going.

get the fuck out and do something before you kill yourself man

No one dies version, life fucks everyone.

do something ridiculously fun, like going somewhere like, a beach or what ever he hell you would like to go. most of the time when people feel like you, and everyone has, they really just need a well deserved break from their everyday responsibilities. indulge in not having to do anything while your away, and when you come back, trust me you will feel much better.

Waaaaaaaaaa......yeah life IS tough. It's tough for everyone. At least you are starting out ahead of the game

That's great to hear! I hope you stay on your positive path. Remind yourself that so many would envy what you have and have achieved. May the rest of your days be blessed.

Seems I got over it. took 2 days off to hang out with my friends this weekend, was in parties all the time. Thanks for your help guys, you made me think over everything I am involved in right now. Need to reconsider what I am doing and what I have to do and should spend more time with friends

You need to be reminded of how fortunate you are then if you have 'everything' you want/need. You can easily do this by volunteering at your local soup kitchen or charity. It's easy to forget our blessings. Sounds to me like you don't have any REAL problems. It just seems larger than life because they're yours. Some readers would say you're just whining about nothing. Consider those who have serious issues - illness, death, poverty, abuse etc...You've got nothing on them.

That's not true. You essentially have stated that you are smarter than any doctor, and so they couldn't possibly help you. Instead you came to an online confessions site for help. I'll quote your exact words, 'please help me.' There's no evidence that you are actually seeking help. I'll leave now. Good luck to you.

if you knew me, you wouldnt say so

I'm going to ignore your vanity. You've stated that you don't know what the problem is; yet, you keep referring to a ' really tough life.' There's something there that you are afraid to face. A professional is trained to help you with this.

nope I did not, mainly because i dont think its an issue to go to a doctor, most probably my brain functions better and faster then any mental health professional's

You said that it''s nothing clinical, but have you actually consulted a mental health professional.

nope, not at all, but again, this all started a couple of months ago. nothing happened during that period, i just started being depressed. but when it still remains for 2 months, thats what freaks me out, and i cant get over it :(

So when you were helping these people were you feeling bad? I don't think so.

i have helped a lot of people, if I call any of my friends and fellows and tell them about what i feel right now, i will have 100s of people crossing miles to get to me and be with me, but still not the thing.maybe a new plan in life, and total change of my character? dont know :(

thanks for reply, there shouldnt be anything i miss, seems i have everything i need to be happy and even if i dont have it, i can get/have it, no problems at work at all, everything is great, no clinical problems for sure, its just the really really tough life i had, maybe there is something that I miss, nut i dont know what that is the problem. I dont want to say that I am perfect, but the perfection part maybe is a part of what i feel right now. i do have a lot of people depending on me and its not like i can leave and go. i want to disconnect from everybody i know (except my family) and start a new life, but I cant do it yet

You need a goal. Not just a goal but a plan. In the end, your efforts should benefit someone other than yourself. You can't be unhappy knowing that you've helped someone.

Dear fellow success story, I totally understand where you're coming from. The thing to ask yourself is ' what do I feel is missing in my life? ' Do you lack passion in your marriage? Do you think you may be clinically depressed? Have you reached a plateau at work? Perhaps you feel there is something more and greater out there for you? It sounds to me like you are missing something, that you are incomplete and yet you haven't mentioned what. Are you overdue for a vacation? It sounds horrible to say but 'perfection' can be tiring! You get tired of people depending on you, relying on you, needing you. Once in a while, it'd be nice if someone else held that title and you could goof off and not care about anyone or anything. Post back here and I hope I can help.