I still hate my grandmother
Posted Jun 2, 2011 by anonymous | 2437 views | 7 comments
My gandmother had become an after thought since I have now been in the Navy for 3 years. When I was on leave last month my Father insisted I visit her. She is from Greece and still today speaks bad English. My parents and most of my uncles and aunts own some type of restaurant or diner, mostly in New Jersey. My grandmother always watched the kids and she was cruel and brutal to most of us. I just witnessed her spanking my aunts daughter when I was there and it was the same way with the same paddle she used on me, my brother and most of my cousins over the years. Right in front of me and my cousin George she pulled down this little girls panties and spanked her bare ass in front of us. She is one of my youngest cousins, but is 10 years old. I could see and feel her humiliation since the same had been done to me many times while growing up. My grandmother was always strick but her lack of compassion is sickening. She treated my girl cousins the same as the boys and never had any concerns who witnessed her so called spankings of us. Why our parents never questioned the methods or objected to the way she treated us, I will never know. She probably treated my father llike that as a child and perhaps that is why. My parents and my cousins parents work long hard hours all the time so we were left under her radical control. When I was a kid almost every day someone was spanked. For me it lasted until I started high school. If not for working in my parents diner after school and on weekends she probably would have continued to whip me as well. When I was around 13 and in 8th grade I was spanked at least six times that year. It was done in front of both male and female cousins or other family menbers and one time I was completely naked when she grabbed me coming out of the shower. All I had on was a towel and she already had the paddle in her hand and pulled the towel off me. She made me bend over a chair and beat me unmercifully in front of my brother, two girl cousins, and an aunt. It hadn't been the first time she spanked me naked but at that age it was the most humilating time ever. I don't remember any of us who didn't cry when she did this and at 13 the crying part is embarrassing also. I did see her spank my brother naked once and a few times did it to one of my boy cousins but they were younger than I was when she did it. Most of the times I saw her spanking one of us they were only bare from the waiste down. I did witness her spanking three of my girl cousins naked but they were much younger than 13 when she did. I never forgave her for that and see now she hasn't changed a bit in all these years. Now she is only watching four of my younger cousins two are girls and 2 are boys. When I was younger she sometimes watched as many as eight of us. The boys are 8 and 11 and the girls are 10 and 12 and I know exactly the type of humiliation they are subjected to after experiencing it myself for many years. As far as I am concered my grandmother is a sadistic bitch and I don't care if I ever see her again. I just don't understand how she can be so mean and cruel to her grandchildren and expose them to one another the way she does.
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Commented Jun 1, 2012 by anonymous
Age or no age, grandmother or no grandmother, ou ar enow a grown man, a marine and should be able to take matter into your own hands. Take the paddle from ehr, bend her across a table and thrash the living daylights out of her. the fact your parents, uncles and aunts did nothing about this is shameful. I agree with corporal punishment in rare cases but this is downright improper and a complete violation of everything. If i were you, i'd take the paddle and thrash the life out of her in front of everyone. As a marine, you should be able to floor anyone who tries to stop you.
Commented Aug 28, 2011 by anonymous
Your Gran is a pervert. What you should have done was report her to the police for assault and battery. You never. Your loss. You let other members of the family down too who were physically abused. Go report her now to the Police so that she can be investigated for past crimes and be locked up. Stop being a pussy and get on with it. No unless this is some wirdo bullshit story and you're the fucking perv which I think you are. You're probably getting a hard on typing about it and seeing ltttle girls panties being pulled down. You sick fuck !!!
Commented Jun 3, 2011 by anonymous
I to was subjected to the same type of punishment by my step father and although never sexually abused by him was tormented and humiliated often by his constant abuse of me. I also could never understand how my mother allowed him to spank me. He was a tyrant and often beat me for the most rediculous reasons, It started when I was as young as 7 and continued all though my puberty years. He spanked me both bare bottom and many times naked forceing me to undress in front of him. I was just shy of 14 when he was arrested and went to jail for selling drugs. I still hate him today and completely understand how you feel about your grandmother. This happened many years ago but I still recall the utter degradation he imposed on me. There were times he spanked me naked in a drunken stupper , not just in the presance of my mother but other men friends of his. He was in jail for a long time and I still don't know why my mother still lives with him. I have, unlike you, confronted and told him how much I hated him. I haven't spoke to him in over ten years and ignore him every time I see him. You should tell your grandmother how you feel and admonish her for the way she treats those kids. It is child abuse even though your granmother doesn't see it as that. By exposing a near naked or naked kid the way your grandmother and my sttepfather did, to me is unforgivable.. Unlike you I was spanked naked or nearly naked in front of my stepfathers male friends and two of his cousins. I do know he intentionally humiliated me and think your ghrandmother did the same. Having someone of the oppisite sex see you being particially or fully naked and spanked is devasistating. I don't remeber much when I was very young but .but when I began to develop I was more self conciousabout anyone seeing my breasts. My stepfather continued making me strip naked before spanking me and often did in front of some of his men friends and cousin. Beleive me I understand how you feel.
Commented Jun 2, 2011 by anonymous
Clearly this woman's actions have impacted your life in a negative way. Though many do not condone 'beatings' , 'spankings' have always been a way of the past. She's not doing anything that probably a lot of older generations from other countries do as well. Is it right? No. Is it wrong? Who's to judge another's culture? You say she spanked you and embarrased you often along with many of your cousins your same age and now you are observing it with younger cousins. You say you don't know why your parents allow this to happen. Well, easy, you're allowing it to happen! No one has had the balls to stand up to this woman and tell her NOT to do it. She's been allowed to do this to you children. Standing by and not saying anything is the same as condoning it. You're a grown man now and have little to lose if you confront her. Man up and break the cycle then! Perhaps you should all get together at the next family event, pull down her underwear and spank her!
Commented Jun 2, 2011 by anonymous
based on your long story i can see how freaked out you are :(