idk what to do...
Posted Aug 8, 2013 by anonymous | 288 views | 4 comments
Don't you hate being one of those guys that causes all the shit in a relationship? or at least you feel like it? It seems as if it's never gunna stop and the mistakes and stupid shit you do just keeps piling on top of one another until it creates a big ball rolling down the hill of your relationship. And it's only a matter of time before that ball hits the bottom and your relationship is over. That's how I feel. I've been accused of flirting, cheating, not caring and any other bad shit a boyfriend could do. My girlfriend thought I was flirting with another girl because of the facebook convos me and this girl had. My girlfriend looked at them in front of me and barely even stopped to read any of them, plus she was completely fried off her ass, as was I. It comes back to haunt me all the time. She thinks I don't care for her anymore and that I don't love her as much as I say and that I don't wanna be with her and all this stuff. I'm just sort of waiting for the day where she gets fed up with me and leaves me. I'm trying so hard to prevent it but the more I try the worse it gets. I don't wanna give up but its so hard. Im only 16 and I'm not one of those guys that thinks the worlds gunna end or anything but we've been together for just about a year and I love her so much. She makes me so happy like its crazy. I came off a bad relationship and so did she and that brought us together and we bonded so quickly. I don't wanna be just her friend either. She always tells me how much she loves me and how happy I make her. I've helped her through so much crap in her life I've been there more than anyone. She says she could see us in University together. She's not dumb either. I'm going to grade 11 (so is she, were the same age) and both grade 10 and 9 she got the highest average in the grade but also being in the highest level courses. She's a prized gem and I really don't her to fade away. Is there anything I can do? She loves me she says but she doesn't show it to the degree that she speaks of. Im just scared half to death about losing her. What should I do? Please real advice not like "dump that ho's ass" or shit like that. It's not gunna help at all
Commented Aug 9, 2013 by anonymous
Dump that ho's ass.
Commented Aug 9, 2013 by anonymous
The things & people will not behave as per our will, you must also change for them.
Commented Aug 9, 2013 by anonymous
So there's a few things you could do 1) ask to take a break, which (if you dont know what it is) is kind of like breaking up for a week or two, then you could see how life is with out her and if its better, if not keep her 2) if her being jealous of you talking to other girls is the problem in your relationship, simply stop talking to other girls! If the girl your talking to is a good friend, then hang out altogether with your girlfriend and your friend, and shell be more comfortable now that she knows the girl your talking to 3) sit down and have one of those "feelings" talk and talk about all your problems in your relationship and hash things out Good luck xx
Commented Aug 9, 2013 by anonymous
dude life is short and ur in charge of everything in yours! think about what "5yrs from now version of you" would say to you now...bite the bullet and move on to sometginf you deserve and let her do the same