I know from experience that you are doomed!! I know from experience!!! Look at love of a lifetime.. protect yourself!!!

You loved here then met someone else ? I would say that your insecure, weak and pathetic. You probably have a small weiner sodon't worry about it. Just put it down to the fact that you're an immature loser with no prospects. Go visit a prostitute and get some experience you idiot !!!

Contact her one last time. If she is still saying she needs time, trust me its over. Girls only say that when they dont want to hurt you by saying get lost.

I'm sorry man but she is as important to me as my family. There is nothing I won't do for her that I won't do for my family.

Fuck her. It was her battle. Your family is forever. She'll only be around long enough to set up a situation that will cause a rift between you and your family again. That's what people like her do. They act like they are doing you a big favor just being with you.

I'm sorry for your loss. Good luck, man.

True love is hard to get. If she truly loves you, she will want to come back and work something out where both of you win.

youll get her back. you lovee her too much for her to let go. she has become a part of you now. i just hope she understands

if she loves you she wont let something or anything come between you guys. true love always has to go through obstacles and if she loves you, shee will wanna work through it. best of luck sweetie

Does she know your sorry? If so, she has no reason to forgive you. If you truly love her and she loves you, she will want to be there with you. Im sure she wants to work it out. Together, you guys just have to work out the family problems. Ignoring it doesn't solve anything.

i log in and this is the latest post firstly yes what you did was wrong very wrong even though in some way you totally had a reason to fill the empty void and the fact you admit it shows you truly want her back. just cause of that Speakn from experience (lol im a girl) a girls heart is very hard to win and once you do and that girl loves and cares about you, breaking it is difficult on her as well. So if she does lvoe you than she has no reason not to take you back. sure people will come in the way again and sure your/her family might interfere again but that doesnt mean you break up...... those are hurdles and every couple has them. its once you get past them that makes you appreciate what you have for each other more... i hope my fellow sister truly understands shes gota lucky guy on her hand lol

That is beautiful man. Congrats on winning the love of your life back. As fo bassi89, i totally agree with the person above me. if you broke up based on what other people said then why is it you two are the ones suffering?? you obvious care about this girl so much and if you didnt, you wouldnt be here. I have always lived by this quote: 'Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them.' if she cares about you, she will come back else im sorry bro but 8 years is alot of memories to lose. she is practically a part of you now

I know how you feel. Its tough losing a girl that you cared about for so long. I went through a breakup with this girl I cared about ever since high school. I would take courses with her just so maybe one day I would man up and go talk to her but I didn't. After my second year of college, she was with me again and she talked to me. We dated but then other people (my friends and her family) got involved into our relationship which made us break up. I am born in Canada but she was from Algeria, so her parents were not all that thrilled about the dating scene. Plus her sister and 3 brothers always kept spying on her, which made us be a relationship in secret. Her brothers used to insult and threaten me all the time cause I was always on the phone with her or texting her. When we broke up, I went into a completed depression mode due to the fact that the break up involved someone else. I always tried to date right away which was completely wrong. But do what we did. Sit down with her and talk. If you truly do love each other, then something like you talking to a girl, or something your family said or did. They can talk all they want but when they realize how happy you are, they will come around. They always do. Thats why me and the girl of my dreams have been married for 2 years. Being in a relationship means having its up and downs but the most important thing is always being there together. Not breaking up over the first sign of trouble. You should tell her that. She and her family are probably hurt by this as well but if she truly does love you and does consider you to be the guy she wants to be with, then she will want to work it out. My wife hated me after what happened but she truly from the bottom of her heart loved me. That's why she stayed with me. Though we did keep our relationship secret for about 2 months so everything and everyone around us calmed down. That is always an option. Though a secret relationship is not always fun, it is better than she ending it if both of you still have feelings about each other. So if I can work out my love life which included 2 abusive brothers and sister-in-law, you obviously can as well. Just tell her everything I said. Good luck. God bless.

dude, it's not about sex. not AT ALL. it's the emotional connection you made with another woman. and you were venting about a problem between you and your girl? pouring your heart out to some pretty face (or even ugly face, which may even be more insulting) is hurtful to a woman. SHE wants to be the one you spill you guts to. and if you really can't talk to her about whats bothering you, talk to a guy friend, a brother, your friggin dog! just don't go crying on the shoulder of a females natural enemy - another female;)

It was not a friend I e-mailed. A random girl I would want to talk to. We had been broken up for 2 days only. I didn't know if we were gonna be getting back together or not.

Leaning on a friend in times of trouble is not a crime. What is she truly upset over - the fight with the family member or the fact that you called up a friend to vent? I hate to say it but I don't think you really did anything wrong here and your girl is acting very childish. If you've apologized profusely and she refuses to move forward with you, you need to re-evaluate this 'love' of yours. Its not like to slept with another girl!

well if you truly love her and she loves you and you are truly sorry for what you did, she should take you back. just probably just needs time but whatever you do, talk to her whenever it feels right. make god bless you

I told her I was sorry and willing to do anything to make it right. What else can I do... I love this girl to death. I know I shouldnt have emailed the girl and I am taking responsibility for my actions. I have always tried to make her happy because for me, the most important thing was to see a smile on her face. She says she needs time before she talks to me again but I don't want to lose her while I wait for her to reply.

go talk to her, if you are brave of course or you truly love her

go and tell all that to the girl and she'll understand that you admit your sin. Good luck