I fellin love on the rebound and now I regret it!
Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 248 views | 2 comments
Shortly after I divorced my wife for adultery three years ago, I fell in love with a women sixteen years older than me. I am 35. My friends warned me that I might be acting on the rebound. I sold my house and moved in with her away from my family and friends. I now seriously doubt my feelngs for her. Although I like her children, I have no role as they are very close to their father and I'm more like a brother figure to them because their just a few years younger than me. I have a growing desire to leave and start a family. I would be racked with guilt but I don't see a future here. I feel selfish and disloyal even thinking like this. Should I stick it out?
Commented Apr 6, 2011 by anonymous
Ask yourself this question, if she was the same age as you, would you feel as guilty? I can't imagine that she'd want you to stick around knowing you are not in love with her. Regardless of the circumstances that brought you two together, an unhappy relationship is an unhappy relationship. You owe her the truth at the very least. If you are unhappy, you'll be tempted to cheat on her. Get out before you do more damage.
Commented Apr 6, 2011 by anonymous
No, don't stick it out! You need to worry about you right now. If you are feeling this way now, chances are, these feelings won't change. Your 'growing desire' is only going to keep growing! Nicely and respectfully.....leave:)