holding hands with mother-in-law
Posted Aug 19, 2011 by anonymous | 1364 views | 5 comments
need help: Me and my wife had been married for 18 yrs. I'm 45 and my mil is 62 she is well indowed. I have been play this game for years were every chance I get to try to cop a feel whether just passing to close or when we go to leave to go back to our house. That is not the problem or maybe it is. We have just basically just hit a point now were when we stay over night at their house she has a couple of physical issues so she winds up sleeping on the couch sometimes. So what has happened is that I will walk down stairs and slowly work my way over til i am under the blanket with her. I well roll toward her and lay my arm across her until it fells like I have cupped her breast. The first time it was like oh well she's tired and doesn't realize what I did but the second time she moved her arm a little almost as if she kinda liked it. After that she was over at our house and we were watching a movie and I slid over to show her some pictures on the camera we ended up holding hands. Later she told my wife and her husband that it felt good and were they upset about what happened and they both said no that we were married long enough and that it really didn't bother them. I had a talk with her mother and she said that it was good that i was finally opening up after all these years and that it was ok. I told her that i loved my wife but sometime did not feel like cheating but needed alittle extra physical attention if that was ok with her. Now after all of that here is the question what should I do next or nothing at all and just let things play out? THANK YOU
Commented Aug 5, 2014 by anonymous
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Commented Jul 19, 2014 by anonymous
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Commented Aug 20, 2011 by anonymous
The two people above are women. I am a man. Go or it. You may be reading her wrong. So go easy with it. If you are subtle, youmay get that 'extra attention'.
Commented Aug 19, 2011 by anonymous
Have some respect for your wife and dont do that anymore!Would you want your wife to do that with your brother, dad,friend?
Commented Aug 19, 2011 by anonymous
If you are looking for more affection, the first person you should ask for it is in fact your wife. Let her know how it affects you with no uncertainty - be very very clear. Affection from another person is important but so is choosing who its from. Be very careful with this one. One false move and your house of cards will fall. There are 2 couples involved here. All it takes is one person to take offense and you'll be labelled the bad guy. Don't count on her folks siding with you. I don't condone cheating but I also don't think a person should have to suffer if their spouse won't take care of their other spouses' needs. You really need to talk to your wife and ask her what is acceptable to her. Maybe she'll surprise you and let you run wild with hookers!