Ok so i was with this girl, let's name her Queen Alberta of Pennsylviana, for about 1 year. We had a lot of problems, mainly her ( cheating, abusing me ), but i was madly in love with her. The main problem for me was, that when we engaged sexual stuff, i was doing all the work, and did all what was possible to please her. I fingered her, clit and vagina, licked her, giving her multiple times, orgasms. I really tried. The problem was, she never gave anything back. I didn't ask for much, but a little foreplay from time to time doesn't hurt anyone. What happened, was that when she saw that a was hard, she just took my penis and inserted it in her. And that killed me, mainly because i made like 30 minutes ( sometimes more, sometimes less ) of foreplay. So then, after 3 months of that going on, i talked to her. She told me that she needed time to do stuff like that. I felt relieved, because just the fact that i had to ask her why she wasn't doing anything made me feel like i was being a jerk. So i waited. And nothing happened. So 3 months later, i brought up that subject back to life, very delicately, and then got screamed at for 3 hours straight ( on skype ). From 23:30 to 2:30. more or less of course. So i got mad confused, because i didn't ask her like a jerk or something. i just asked like : hey look, i hate to bring this subject back to the table, but look, i am getting more and more bored in bed.. even if it makes me look like a jerk, i am making the most efforts in bed, and i rarely get anything back. I know you told me that i had to give you some time, but i'm starting to get depressed. Yes depressed. Not like death is the answer depressed, but more like having more and more issues with my body, i couldn't touch myself anymore and hated to look myself in the mirror. The fact that she always thought that i was cheating on her, which i wasn't, helped a little bit too. So now it's over, for other reasons, but i would like an opinion. When in a situation like that, what would you do ? Was i being to jerky ? Or.. ?