Forbidden Love?
Posted Dec 2, 2012 by anonymous | 609 views | 5 comments
I have been dating a guy from work for a while. I did really like him before but I have gradually over time started to develop feelings for his brother (who I also work with). I find myself going over to his house for the solid reason that I want to see his brother. I feel as if his brother also may like me but I don't know what to do bc it seems somewhat wrong? What to do...what to do..?
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
Who says? Some people have open, mature relationships (I do) and they work just fine. Granted, juggling two brothers would be a stretch here.
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
Wow, you really are in a tough spot, too much of a good thing in way. Stay with your boyfriend and keep a secret crush on his brother. Dump your boyfriend, but maybe lose them both if the brother doesn't share your feelings. Then even if he does, you've got to contend with HIS brother, someone you still have feelings for and don't want to hurt. Plus you work with both of them. Can you get into anything more complex? You know, I don't see this ending well if you do nothing. I'm not sure how mature they are, but maybe it's time for a heart-to-heart with both of them, but be prepared to end up with nothing. Also, are you 100% sure your attraction to the brother isn't just a crush for a similar guy? I have a lovely wife and I can tell you that when I meet or see other women of her type (gorgeous, smart, funny, and real), I'm instinctively attracted to them, too, but it doesn't mean I'm not interested in my wife anymore. I just take it as a natural feeling and I don't have to chase after it. (May or may not be applicable for your situation.)
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
You must be loyal to one person only.
Commented Dec 3, 2012 by anonymous
umm, I don't get it. lol
Commented Dec 2, 2012 by anonymous
don't do it you are just going to cause unnecessary drama in their life , that or just let both of them fuck you and then you all will all be one big happy family