
First and only love.....forever
Posted Jun 13, 2013 by anonymous | 268 views | 1 comments
My ex-wife R took our baby daughter with her and left me almost 3 years ago, after about 2 years of of fighting, nasty arguments, cat fights, blame games and all kinds of horrible things that can possibly happen between a husband and wife. Ours was a love marriage but with time we realized we were not compatible. However, I strongly believed and I still do that a way out was possible and we could've worked on damage control. But she was adamant and never wanted to reconcile. I tried to stop her. I repeatedly begged her to come back. She simply refused to budge. Ultimately, we got divorced, mainly due to her insistence. Problems in our marriage had arisen because both of us were at fault. but I still loved her. i loved my daughter immensely as well. I loved her so much that I didn't even try to get the custody of my daughter because to me, snatching an infant away from the mother is nothing short of a grave sin. I have committed to take full responsibility of my daughter's living expenses, medical and educational expenses for the rest of my life. i speak to her whenever i feel like doing so. i travel abroad and meet her once or twice every year , even though it's a very expensive affair. A year after divorce I said yes to my family's insistence to start afresh and get married I wanted to marry someone who was also divorced so that she never brings up my past in any conversation. So, I married a divorced girl I liked so that we can live together peacefully and have a baby soon. We had spoken about everything - likes and dislikes, problems, responsibilities etc before taking the final decision to get married. She even said she was pretty cool about my relationship with my daughter. immediately after marriage I realized that she simply can't tolerate me talking to my daughter. She is a nice woman otherwise. But I don't know why she is so jealous of a 3 year old baby girl. She gets violent and hyper if I talk to or even talk about my daughter. I miss my ex wife now, despite all the trouble and hardships I had to go through because of her. She was my first love. And pretty much she will remain my only love forever. I wish she had agreed to come back and reconcile. It's just too late now. Remarriage was a wrong decision. Totally wrong. I've invited additional trouble for myself. Still, if R ever wants to get back with me again, I'll simply go back to her without caring a damn about the rest of the world.
Commented Jun 13, 2013 by anonymous
You want to be miserable. The end.