I am a 35 year old married woman who has been neglected by her husband for the past five years. He seldom wants sex, but a lot of men - from 18 to 75 hit on me every week, and I am told that I am really pretty. It is difficult to see another man in my small town, but I work part time at our church and I have found our minister, who is around 45, very thoughtful, helpful, nice looking and sexy. I have tried - in a very discreet way - to let him know I desire to have sex with him for over a year. He seemed to not take the hint, but I finally found out he understood, but was resisting the temptation. On his birthday I wished him a happy and special day and asked him if there was anything special he would like for his birthday. He smiled and said "Yes, but I can't tell you". I said well suspose I give you a little hug if that is alright. He said nothing so I did, and also kissed him lightly on the cheek. He responded by hugging me back and turned my head and kissed my lips firmly. I moved in closer and held on to him. I could feel his erection so I said "Do you know I have wanted and need this for a long time?' He said he knew but had tried to resist the temptation for he was being neglected at home. I said it seems we both have been neglected. We were along at the church and there is a sofa in his office. He locked the door and asked if he might proceed with loving me and I said I was anxious for him. Very quickly he undressed me and himself and lowered me to the couch. We both were hot as two teen agers as he kissed me all over, and I do mean ALL over. Finally he pushed his large penis into me and I pushed back until we were fully joined. He was wonderful, thoughtful, and knew what I needed and how to please me. We both stayed together that first day long enough to get three climaxes. I have now been at the church for over three years and we manage to have sex at least once each week and sometimes and many as three times. It no longer matters if my husband doesn't want sex. I know I can get it whenever my body wants it. We both seem very happy to have found each other and we DO pray for God's understanding. When we get married we promise to take care of our mates. If we don't is it any more sinful to get it somewhere else? I think not.