
Families
Posted Mar 2, 2011 by anonymous | 107 views | 0 comments
Hey Sis, Save this for a moment when you can read my BS life.... I am so shocked numb and 'out to lunch' as my wonderful 'family' says... The greatest part of the week was a gig at The Sweet Grass Cafe in Oscoda Mi, warm friendly, treated with respect! cool atmoshpere, wish you were there... you would have seen Bobby at his best! Then reality sets in again After losing the bar gigs and spit of income it was throwing our way, I this.... getting a call from Aileen my daughter and Shaun her boyfriend, Early 3am Saturday before our great gig at the Sweet Grass, said she went through a plate glass window... got drunk tripped on toys and fell... yeah right. I jumped... in my head... to Shaun throwing her through it.... but I was wrong ... dead wrong...so wrong about the story, I'm not going to tell.... it is too bizarre and twisted the events leading up to it, I can bearly comprehend... (I'll tell here on raw complaints dot com.... I am in a relationship with a man who has 4 kids, three boys and one girl, may daughter is an only child, we have been together for many years and all the kids called each other brother and sisters... my husbands son john got drunk and screwed my daughter who was drunk, the guilt when she was found out by shaun drove her to slitting her wrist) The part I can say... Aileen's wound was self inflicted after drinking Captian Morgans, more than half of a fifth and smoking 'white Rhino' 'it was white and had crystals on it' she said... I've heard stories about the white rhino... it is laced with some other agent and causes all kinds of strange behavior... massive migranes, rage, paranoia etc... bad shit to smoke... The event's I cannot speak of yet... just flipped her out on that shit... Then dealin with my own poopy health, the chronic fatigue and pain, then robert's pain (post broken neck twice with bone spurs and mega pain) and his lack of sleep & schedule.... killer pain at this time of year for both of us... I'm quitting smoking to boot and menopausal as hell with full blown hot flashes... I'm really fun to live with they tell me.... But how would you feel or deal with... I have two adult house guests disrespecting the hell out of us... I cleaned before the gig at the sweet grass and came home to a dirty house... I swear all Rob does is work... train... stay up late watching movies or f**king his gf... she sleeps in til Rob wakes her at lunch or when he gets home...as her job doesn't start until the second of nov... she sits in her room and watches movies while I become maid and handyman... and he hasn't paid a dime.... have they heard my kind gentle pleas for help ? a couple times a week I ask them to help with the dishes and floors and garbage on a daily basis.... I guess I'm expecting too much Robert Sr was coming down on me for a variety of things including the house... I just came off a 24 hour migrane that sent me vomiting and in bed all day.... My house is a mess and I'm to blame..????? I blew up, Told Rob Jr that he should be stepping in where his dad cannot do... he is disrespectful to me and his father for moving in making promises to pay, moving in a girl and then expecting me to clean up after them. oh... did I say the wrong thing... he went off on me and said I'm lazy and I keep confusion in the house.... I told his gf that she is staying in her room and keeping it nice and clean, but both of them disrespect the rest of the house... friends over, leaves & dirt tracked through the house and debris left for me to clean up.... they swept the floors once in 3 months, cleaned dishes four times in three months and taken out the garbage once... But Rob Jr & Sr can dig at me and say I'm letting the dishes or garbage pile up.... I told them I've paid for the lights and phone with my efforts, Robert is keeping the mortgage somewhat, but really we are in such a tight financial spiral, I can see the ground coming up to slap us in the face.... his father and I are working our asses off to save the house from forclosure and all they can do is make more work and stress for us. they said they can move out in a week, I told them to leave, then get the hell out now.... I'm tired, tired and more tired and need help not more work piled high by adult kids who should know better We have a typical split on this between Robert Sr and I, he supports the kids view, that all I do is complain and bitch.... boy I really should open up with both barrels instead of keeping my tounge every day.... When will they all understand.... I came and practically gave up my life to help this man out because we love each other..... I don't mind cleaning up after him..... I don't mind all the sleepless nights and the pain that we go through with both of our conditions...and the work of being with a brilliant musician who performs out. They should be as thankful as ever that I cared enough to step in and help.... they should be doing all the work this man can't and do it whether they live here or not... but getting any kind of help from them is painful... But yet they expect us to continually help them..... Thanks for letting me vent.... Annie
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