Confessions of a Broken Heart
Posted Mar 28, 2011 by Jinxed | 488 views | 4 comments
When I was seventeen, I fell in love for the first time. Even now I can still remember every minute of it. The relationship lasted 3 months and I felt terrible even bitter. Since then I have dated four different guys. The three breakups thereafter were milder but still painful. Then Frank entered my life.
He was sweet and careful with me. We went everywhere together: the movies, picnics, parks, parties; every one of our friends felt jealous. I have never felt so at home with anyone before. I knew or at least though I knew everything about him. We went through a lot: his parents’ death, his financial troubles, his health problems. I stood by him; I loved him; I built my world around him but…
He said he’s never coming back. I still don’t know what I did or didn’t do and I have cried myself to death twice over. My friends have been helpful but I’m afraid I’m too deeply hurt for help.
Commented Apr 10, 2011 by SlimShadySexy
Oh, girl, that's one sad confession. I've been told men can be a bitch but I think I've been lucky so far. However, I think I have a friend just like you. She's attractive and all but boys never seem to want to go out with her. So, what we do is set her up with them. At the end, we got one geeky fellow to stick with her and they've been going out now for three years straight. Longer than any of us her friends. I wish you the same kind of luck. You'll meet the one guy who will stay with you forever.
Commented Apr 8, 2011 by LolaB
While I have been more the 'heartbreaker' than the 'heartbroken', I can tell you that it is no easier for the one going away unless he is already cheating on you. Breaking up with someone is a terrible thing but sometimes it has to be done. I am sorry that you are unlucky in love but you cannot afford to give up especially if you are the romantic I think you are. So, let this grieving pass and put on a winsome smile over a confident look. You are a winner and I trust that the man for you is still out there, pining for you.
Commented Apr 8, 2011 by CooliO
Sometimes things like this happen. Remember, if anyone can make you so happy, they can also make you so miserable. Love is not always the road to happiness and for all intents, he might still love you. Maybe there is something he has to do or somewhere he has to be and there is no way he can see you coming along. There is a time to grief and I'd like to tell you that time will heal the pain but the truth is, it won't. You need to make a conscious effort to stand up and be yourself again.
Commented Mar 28, 2011 by anonymous
Learn to love yourself. Then maybe you'll be ready for someone else to love you.