Cheating
Posted Apr 28, 2013 by anonymous | 340 views | 3 comments
I've been married for 12 years now. I have 3 wonderful children and a wife I truley do love yet 3 times I have cheated I her with other women. I currently have another woman who I see a lot since I work with her. I don't know why but the attraction is so powerful rational thought seems to be non existent. I don't want to leave my wife or end my marriage but I feel so strongly to this other woman it feels as though I love 2 women. So my confession is out, judge if you like, comment if you will. I'm not sure where I will proceeded at this time, all I know is that I don't want to loose either woman but I'm sure ill have to make a choice some time soon. Thanks for giving me an outlet to say what I've buried deep inside for years.
Commented Apr 29, 2013 by anonymous
Let's just face reality. After 12 years, you are tired of sex with the same woman over and over again. You want to sample something new. Like it or not, I think all men are that way. However, some do yield to the temptation and cheat, and some don't. Men, by nature, are not monogamous.
Commented Apr 29, 2013 by anonymous
You must tell the truth to your wife.
Commented Apr 28, 2013 by anonymous
well would you like it IF your wife AND kids cheat in you??? finding someone else than you? Its up to you what you want this is only a suggestion ok? i go to a group that is good for healthy relationships www.codependentsanonymous.org or coda.org there are in person meetings and phone meetings and your car is the best privacy for you. try a few meetings or more to get a feel for it. you will love it believe me its a blessing for me. i have a sponsor/friend i call and i did the 12 step work. i love it. and there is cosa.org also... codependent sex addicts. i wouldnt steer you wrong. its a suggestion obly you have to do the work and it wont take one meeting.... maybe a few months. i am 19 years clean from cocaine and the 12 step groups are my life. my mom n i we get along better now she's controlling and i am her carpet ok????!!!?!?! email me if you have any questions concerns ilovepadrepio68@gmail.com im linda pleased to meet you and i am 51 now and still growing up. God bless and I hope you do better. Linda †