"Bestfriends"
Posted Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous | 372 views | 10 comments
Okay so, me and this boy, have been bestfriends for almost two years now. I trust him a lot. At one point during last year, i did feel something a little more on the not so friendly side, but i dropped it because I needed a friend more than a fwb, or a bf. We went to this New Years party and we both got really messed up drinking, and then we hooked up. It wasn't awkward at all, we just acted like it never happened. Recently, hes been getting really touchy, pressing up on me, telling me how beautiful I am, and it makes me really uncomfortable. Come to find out, he had gained unspoken feelings for me after that hook up. They always say bestfriends are made for each other, and I would consider, but being his bestfriend I've been witness to his relationships. He constantly gets with girls, and fucks them over, cheats, leaves them for other females, yet he tries to convince me that he would change for me, and I dont believe it at all. Its started many arguments, and now our friendship is pretty rocky. Should I continue the friendship? Should I let it be more than that? Or should I end it all together?
Commented Jun 16, 2013 by anonymous
Ugh. Thanks, this is helpful.
Commented Jun 16, 2013 by anonymous
19, going on 20. Now move with your ignorance.
Commented Jun 13, 2013 by anonymous
Seriously haa. How old are you ?
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
Best friend will be always best friend. You know them the best and you love them regardless of being evil or good. Best friend should never cross the line friendship. I had 2 best female friends and sometimes I thought of getting together. I even tried. But I come to realize we can't be closed because it will most probably destroy something good.
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
I know, I know. We argue about it, and it's tearing us apart ._.
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
Lol im sorry about your husbands dislike for your bestfriend !! But thanks so much, I'm gonna keep our friendship - well what's left of it.
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
THANK GOD, someone who understands ...
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
You already know how he treats ladies you've witnessed it with your own eyes. Don't make the mistake of believing he'll all of a sudden change. People don't change that fast
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
Same situation been friends with this guy for a long time many, many, years and I am deeply in love With him, however; he's a self-proclaimed man slut and openly brags about it. I am married anyway but we've remained Friends over the years The only reason I've never slept with him or tried to date him is because I know it wouldn't work out anyway. It's hard tho he means so much to me. And my husband freaking hates him lol
Commented Jun 12, 2013 by anonymous
That's exactly how my bestfriend is. He does all the shit to girls and then told me he had feelings for me after we started messing around. But I didn't let it go to a relationship because I don't want to lose him. We are still very close but I would never date him. Just be Fwb. Don't be in a relationship with him, it would probably ruin it.