Am I gay? Your honest opinion please...
Posted Dec 23, 2012 by anonymous | 340 views | 8 comments
Ok, so im a dude right, this shit may sound crazy to some of you and to others it may not. I LOVE women, i can't even keep my head straight or keep from thinking dirty thoughts when I see a sexy lady walk my way. I've been with 5 girls in my lifetime so I know for sure I like to have sex with women. But...every here and there I get curious about what it would be like to be with a dude, but it's strange cause the thought about me doing some explicit shit with a man sickens me, I dont know if its just the curiousity, or if i'm gay for having these gay thoughts. Sometimes I wonder what it'd feel like to recieve head from a man, but not just any dude, a dude that is kinda feminine maybe the ones that kinda resemble a girl in the face, those are the only kinds I can bare to think about having sex with. It's fucking me up, cause I wanna be 100% all about Vj, but I can't help but wonder man, sometimes I think about a sexy ass transgender bitch, but the thought of a dick makes me very uncomfortable. And I feel like I must explain that women make me horny like no thought of a man could, I get extremely aroused over women, but somewhat aroused to by men. I've had gay dudes hit on me before, and I kinda liked the attention, but i pretended to hate it like most men would, saying shit like "get the hell on man, I'm not gay" or "I like pussy not dick" lol. Idk im comfortable with my body, and with who I am, but I just really don't want these thoughts, any suggestions? Anyone going through the same shit?
Commented Jan 21, 2013 by anonymous
It's simple. If you are sexually attracted to guys but are not sexually attracted to girls you are gay. If you are sexually attracted to both you are bi. If you are only sexually attracted to girls you are heterosexual. That is all there is to it. Not complicated at all.
Commented Dec 26, 2012 by anonymous
I think it is very normal. I'm straight too, but have also had those thoughts and dreams. How could we not be curious to see what another guy does when you touch or suck him. I often wonder what it would be like if a guy came in my mouth.
Commented Dec 24, 2012 by anonymous
To be fair you is bi dude. Any straight man out there would not even have any thoughts about other guys at all period. I'm a gay dude so I can kind of relate in some ways to what your saying...my best friend is in the army and another of mine is a marine and one told me recently that he had a fliing with a dude just meeting up and this guy would suck my best friend off til he cum and then other times my friend would just fuck this guy. Then the marine friend of mine told me that he likes fucking girls but like pringles once ya pop ya can't stop - him with guys I mean...so yep ur bi. Plus every guy out there knows that a dude is always better than any girl at giving head or hand jobs cause a 'guy knows another guy' his body and what gets him off lol
Commented Dec 24, 2012 by anonymous
No dear you are not a gay. Sometimes the situation makes us to feel like but you are not.
Commented Dec 23, 2012 by anonymous
You might have some bi-sexual tendencies rather than being gay. I think of gay as having a definite romantic interest and preference in same sex. I adore women sexually, but have had some of the same thoughts as you regarding men sometimes. I checked some gay porn just for the hell of it and it did nothing for me, sort of like watching birds fucking, kind of nonplussed, not repulsed. But maybe under the right circumstances I might have sex with a guy with me purely in a "receptive," pleasing mode. No idea why, I guess it's my inner feminine. I've had lots of guys hit on me over the years as they seem to find me attractive for whatever reason (women say I'm handsome). I don't mind. I wouldn't fret if I were you. Enjoy your sexuality.
Commented Dec 23, 2012 by anonymous
I see what you mean now. you're not gay at all
Commented Dec 23, 2012 by anonymous
I know nothings wrong with it, nor am I prejudice against gay people. But the shits just kinda weird to me lol im not used to feeling this way, and I don't know what to think of it, cause like i said, theres no way I could actually picture myself with a masculine man. But a guy that looks like a chick...maybe. Shit bugs me out, cause i'm a horn dog at heart over women.
Commented Dec 23, 2012 by anonymous
I'm a girl. I've gone through the same shit haha I used to think I was a lesbian. I realized I was bi. I think you're just bi curious. there's nothing wrong with being gay. my best friend is gay. anyway I think you're curious. you'll figure it out :)