A Fairytale...
Posted Jan 1, 2012 by anonymous | 440 views | 3 comments
I am married, and middle-aged, and in love with someone I barely know. We met before I was married, when he had a girlfriend, so I denied my feelings and put them aside. Now that my marriage is in a rocky place, I find myself full of regrets for not accepting his advances...he was beautiful, classically handsome, not just cute...beautiful body...looked great in a suit...british accent...good manners...and I keep think of how good I felt when we danced...how he mooned over a picture taken of us...how well we got along that week...and later how he asked me to meet him in New York and I said no...I regret saying no so much, but he was still involved with Sara...how crushed he seemed when I got married...I know that he made it back from the war though, and I am so close to asking for a divorce and flying to Europe just to see him one more time...I still have his contact information and every day it's harder and harder not to reach out to him. In my heart I know I never should have married when I loved someone else this much.
Commented Jan 4, 2012 by newday55
Go for it. You'll regret it if you don't. It may work out or it may not. But you have to know once and for all if you two belong together.
Commented Jan 2, 2012 by anonymous
Hold your horses there, Missy. You're not in love with that man, you never really were, you made the right choices at the time - at the time it was the right thing to do. But as time has passed and you've aged, you've reflected over your life and its repetitive patterns ( it happens to everyone ) and you've somehow covinced yourself that you'd have been happier with this other man. But the truth is, happiness is not where he is... you're bored girl, admit it, stop obsessing about your mistakes and what could have been and dive into something productive and exciting that you can do now, like start a business, volunteer, write a novel, paint, garden, save the whales!!! I just want to caution you against acting on delusional feelings - not those of a young ignorant girl, but those of a middle aged, regretfull woman. It's normal to feel regret, but you would have felt that way had you married the other guy instead. Don't be stupid. Don't throw your life away and everything you've built-up over all these years for some other person. I'm sure hes great, but he's also just a man. ITS A BIRD, ITS A PLANE...NOPE....its just an average man, like any other man. He does sound sexy thought.
Commented Jan 1, 2012 by anonymous
I to have been with a my boyfriend a few years and things are also in a rocky place. He talks about gettin married to me as well. But I'm inlove with the father of my son. Always have and always will. I think about what I find my self in your shoes, with so much regret. I say do what will bring you happiness, because even now da iam with him I think of my sons father everyday and its been 4 years.. if your heart is with him then go for it. But don't let it be only because your marriage is not workin out.