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There are many reasons, but most commonly, it comes down to the same reason women do it (even if women romanticize it more): it's the hunt. The allure of something (someone) different. The mystery of "what is she thinking?" Versus "I know her so well,I can tell EXACTLY what she's thinking." The challenge of "I wounder if I could convince her to sleep with me" versus the certainty of "I can sleep with her whenever I want." And the feeling that you're wanted by someone new.
In short, it's the excitement that only comes from the start of something new. None of these things are worth throwing away a great marriage for, but if you think you can do it without getting caught, and you're not a good enough person to care that you're secretly betraying your spouse (indeed, for a lot of people that, that's actually PART of it, the fact that it's wrong makes it "forbidden fruit' which is all the more exciting), that's why people cheat.
at Mar 24, 2014
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Question for all married men out there...
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