Great post. Very help information thanks for posting :)

Thanks, I've seen your blog before during my, all of the ex-pats are linked together, which is really cool. Thanks for the mention and I put your link up here too.

It can be so arousing when you're both involved. Wife just confessed to me the other day she wants to see me fuck other women while she watches and videos the entire thing.

I want to be the wife, except I want hubby to know, sometimes to watch and video it.

It is a real turn on watching my gal get carressed all around, frenching as the guy goes real rough on her, n the sight of her being rammed n her moaning ...ohh..it's a real turn on.....

You are a strong woman to be able to stay with your husband after that and an even stronger marriage. Many would've been so overwhelmed by the sex that they would most likely have left their husbands (or wives for that matter) and taken up with their new lovers. The idea of voyeurism, of watching my wife with another man or men ( I gave her several gang bangs) is incredible. But what completely flips my switch is sharing a couple openly. Same-room swap is at the top of my sexual experiences. I did the affair thing before and it definitely had its appeal. But seeing and hearing my wife be penetrated by another man while I'm doing the same to his wife is sensory overload to me. On a whole 'nother plateau.

I'm like you I have cuckold fantasies but I am afraid of what would happen if I ever told her.

It could turn you on for a lot of reasons. Maybe you are a beta male with a natural instinct to surrender to the alpha male. Or maybe you want to see your wife turned on in ways you cannot accomplish. Or maybe you like the high of the roller coaster of emotion that comes with seeing the woman you love give herself to another man. Or all of the above.

It doesn't sound so fictional to me. I had a hot no-strings affair for several years with a man I could not resist. He was manlier and more successful than my husband and the sex was fantastic. If my husband had any idea, he never let on. We are still together and happy but I have some hot memories. If your wife is like me maybe your fantasy could become a reality. But I think newday makes a good point. There are a lot of women who do not seem able to separate sex from feelings and just enjoy it for what it is.

It is completely a fiction and doesn't have any reality in it.

Yes it is arousing when it happens for real. My wife and I have gone to a sex club before to reenact something similar. Seeing her get taken by men she had her eyes on; just watching their mating ritual when they were together was so erotic. One guy she was really fixated on fucked her in the large sauna room at the club. It turns you on because it's like you're watching a real live porn movie, only this time you personally know the actors. Just writing this brings back many erotic memories. This feeling is a reason why many people will venture into the world of swinging to some degree. But I must caution you against allowing her to do anything by herself. Don't allow private conversations between her and other men, even if you snoop in some manner. You will only destroy the trust between you two, and could inadvertently create a bond between your wife and another man that would be very difficult to break. This bonding can easily happen when couples have separate swing partners. Just don't do it.