Where do I go now?
Posted May 23, 2013 by anonymous | 209 views | 4 comments
So here is my situation. I was addicted to porn. I would watch porn even though my wife wanted to have sex. (we also still had sex at least once a week). we have 4 wonderful kids together and have been married for about 8 years. I love her to death! so I sought help, and went to therapy for 5 or 6 months. however, I was too late. before I could start my therapy, my wife left me and took the kids (just seperation, no divorce) and now its been almost a year since we have lived in the same house. I look at porn at most once a week, and it im certain it would be far less than that if she were here. but we are no closer to getting back together than we were a year ago. now here comes the hard part. ive cheated on her. she of course does not know, and I would end it in a heartbeat if i knew she was serious about making things better. this other woman was there for me, and supported me through it all. we dont see each other except at most every 2 weeks as she lives a city away from me. my wife is still mad at me for ruining our great relationship, but hasnt gone as far as to file for divorce. her family hates me as they feel betrayed by the things she has told them about what happened. I love her to death, even after everything that has happened. I feel she is my soul mate... so now... where do I go now?
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
Every body knows u can only count up to sloth
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
I don't think it's that bad to watch porn. I'm a woman and I get off to it all time time My husband has gained a lot of weight and doesn't want to have sex maybe once or twice a month I have a very active sex drive and I need to get some sort of release Your wife needs to quit being such a snob I mean I'm sure y'all can work it out Buy her some flowers or some shit Remind her of how you fell in love Make her some dinner break in and clean the house Bitches eat that shit up. Just saying Good luck dude
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
I suggest you to take a moment and stare at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if this is really what you want. Meditate on your goals, morals and ask yourself if this is the type of role model you want for your kids.
Commented May 23, 2013 by anonymous
I can count to potato