What should I do? :(
Posted Jun 6, 2013 by Blekkiz | 311 views | 11 comments
Hey I'm a guy I am 17 years old and I live in Sweden, I just want to hear how other people react to this and would like to hear how i should handle this. I always hear how nice and sweet and good looking I am but I haven't had many girlfriends and this school year I've had two my first gf(A) was a really naughty one we didn't have sex bu were close to but anyways I broke up with her because she was being a bitch to my friends and on several occasions she's said she want's me back but i haven't replied. My latest gf(M) was perfect for me she was cute a bit naughty but not too much and we had lots in common but then she broke up with me about a month back saying that we didn't meet often enough and she had too much in school to be in a relationship (She broke up with me texting), I tried to talk her out of it convince her to give us another chance, but no. Then when i tell one of my friends about it he says he got a text from her asking him "how do i to deal with someone not caring for education and who only thinks of himself?" When he asked her why she had to be so cold and break up with me on the phone she texted me and asked me if i had said that about her and later she sent "you don't need to answer that" Now I know she has been trash-talking me (apparently i'm a satanist), she has been hitting on one of my other friends and she's now together with one of my best friends who is notorious for not being in relationships without sex............ A still wants me back she's hitting on my in every way she can without giving away too much. Should I man up and confront M about this or should just leave it or do something else please tell me what to do + this isn't made up at all 100% true
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Commented Jun 9, 2013 by anonymous
Thank you that helps :)
Commented Jun 7, 2013 by anonymous
It would have been great if she had done that but she didn't and I'm not saying this just to get pity or to try and prove you wrong, my friends thinks i'm too nice to her since she lied to me and that she lies about me. And if I am such "self centered dickhead" as you put it why would I care for my friends opinions, her opinions or anyone else's for that matter? If I was such a person wouldn't that entail that I wouldn't care about anyone or what they were saying?
Commented Jun 7, 2013 by anonymous
Well, obviously you're a self centered dickhead that pissed off every girls and you didn't even know it. Maybe some one should tell you that straight to your face.
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by anonymous
well if m is obviously not interested in you or your feelings and is allowing you to see who your true friends are. if you are still interested in a, the one you broke up with because she was rude to your friends, and if you even want a gf you could talk to her. no need for sex tho. but what will bringing back that friendship and connection hurt? she's obviously really into you and still has feelings for you.
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by anonymous
Lol, thanks. If you have Kik add me @MsJasmineTamia
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by Blekkiz
Blekkiz though i have limited internet usage on my phone :/
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by anonymous
Wanna Kik?
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by Blekkiz
Thank you do you have facebook? And could I add you maybe? You seem like a good person :)
Commented Jun 6, 2013 by anonymous
Okay. If you really care about (M), tell her how you feel and then be done with it. And when you tell her, be clear don't hold back anything! Then, if you feel (A) deserves a second chance and if you want to put up with her bitching then get her back. But if you don't feel like putting up with her, you're a good looking guy; GET BACK OUT THERE! I'm sure you'll find someone! -JASMINE