what is going on
Posted Oct 15, 2013 by anonymous | 239 views | 5 comments
ok so ive been seeing this guy latley that I used to have a crush on long time ago....and recently he kissed me but I dont like him anymore...every time we hang out he is always hugging me and kissing and I like the attention but we never talk about it.I still dont feel anything for him .today he took me to this dark park and we started making out and suddenly he went on top of me and started humping me(with clothes) I was kinda enjoying it but I kinda got scared since I never had a boyfriend so I told him to stop and he did. idint know what to do anymore cause I'm scared and don't want to fuck yet. and especially cause I don't like him as a boyfriend since I'm in love with someone else.its soooo complicated:/
Commented Oct 18, 2013 by anonymous
soo I talked to him and I was right he doesn't want a relationship, I don't want one either.he offered being just friends with benefits but I don't know about that cause I'm not that kind of girl and I know that if we do that later on one of us will lose the game and end up falling in love.
Commented Oct 16, 2013 by anonymous
thank you and yes I think the best would be to end this relationship :D
Commented Oct 16, 2013 by kcal12
well, as long as you are both on the same page, everything is ok. just tell him and end this relationship you have going on :)
Commented Oct 16, 2013 by anonymous
thank you for your advice, the thing is that I really don't feel like he likes him either I think that he just wants to mess around cause its hard believe he likes me since we barely know each other.I was going to give him a chance but he never asked me out or anything.I feel kinda sad cause im not like that and now I feel I did something wrong by letting him continue.
Commented Oct 15, 2013 by kcal12
Well it's simple : you tell him that you don't like him the way he likes you. What you are doing is wrong. Because, if he likes you, he is thinking that you like him back. Now you're giving him a false message. The fact that you still go out with him for the attention he gives you is sickening. I'm sorry if i am so mean to you, but i had someone that gave me a flase message, that took all the attention i gave to her, used me, took advantage of my love for her, and then broke my heart. Please don't make the same mistake. If he just likes you in a friendly sexual way, then it's okay. He won't be heart-broken. In that case he hasn't the right to be a douche to you either. Just tell him hhow you actually feel and end this relationship you have going on, or else one of you will suffer emotionally.