girl u can lose weight bt to be real most every guy i talk to say skinny girls look nasty and i think soo too my bf said if i lose weight he would break up wit me cause he dont want no skinny bitch sum guys like skinny gurls ps if i was a guy i would be scared to fuck one cause wtf am im goin to hold on i dont wanna feel no bones i wanns feel meat and img have u every seen victoria secret models on tv they look nasty wit their bones showing and people thinks thats sexyy hell noo shits nasty asf bt if u wanna lose weight go head nobody stoopin u girl

Yeah, all you have to do is lose weight, right? Easy! I wish you luck. The truth is, you'll likely always be a big girl. So maybe you should consider this: There are plenty of men out there that love big girls! You're young yet, so you've been letting yourself get beat down rather than focusing on the many appealing attributes you do have. Take a look in the mirror. That youthful skin and those sexy curves need to be viewed from a new perspective. Too many big women fail to realize how sexy they really are. Just yesterday, I saw this large woman walk by me wearing these tight yoga type pants. They were black, and stretched so tight around her big thighs and bouncy ass, I could hardly take my eyes off her! The stir in my pants stayed with me for a good while too. Now, most women around would have likely said she looked shameful and disgusting, but I'm pretty sure most of the men looking were thinking something much different. And she wasn't no 19 year old either. You give that some thought sweetheart.

The weight you are gaining is having more things.

Start dancing ;)

Adipex is a prescription drug that you can talk to your doctor about. It requires a 800-1000 calorie diet though. And if you don't exercise regularly (not all the time, just decently) you will lose weight like an older woman. If you feel that exercise isn't working you should talk to your doctor about it. Your height and weight are indicative of obesity. Someone else commented earlier that confidence has a lot to do with it. That's true with everything. Just take care of yourself. I grew up with the same issues, and I'm a dude. I still have self esteem issues even after losing the weight, but you've got to at least appear confident to the dudes you're interested in. And, quite honestly, if they can't take you for who you are now then don't expect them to take you when you lose the weight. There's a person out there for everyone.

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Normally I would call you names but I feel for you. Start off slow and build up. Little by little you can do it. Walking can make a difference. Look for opportunities to go up the stairs etc.

I'm sure you can lose some pounds which would help raise you're self esteem. The main quality you need to get though is confidence. You can still find someone that will like you for who you are while you're losing the weight. My lady is a lil obese but its her confidence and sense of humor and who she is that I'm attracted to. She is not in denial and she works out regularly. One day shes going to drop even more weight. I'm a in shape guy to, so at least in my point of view looks aren't everything. However they are important there is more than just looks that determines if you're a catch. Don't let you're weight hold you back from going for someone you like.

Here is one for you, if you stop seeing food as comfort or a make me feel good when am down; you will make progress. Look at food as energy & nothing else. If food defines you then you will always be fat.

go on a fuking diet