unfulfilled
Posted Mar 2, 2013 by anonymous | 282 views | 5 comments
My wife and I haven't had sex for over seven years now. She has lost her figure, and feels unattractive, although I assure her, constantly, that I find her attractive and desirable. My only release is masturbating, usually in the shower. My fantasies are running rampant, and now include almost any sexual situation you could imagine. I am so horny for contact with another person I would probably engage in anything that presented. Any type of contact with another person seems like it would be great- male, female, giving, getting, oral, anal, whatever. Been with this woman for forty years and never did anything with anyone else in all that time, and now her reluctance to understand my needs could drive me to any type of encounter I could find. I would gladly suck another man's cock, as long as mine got sucked too. I'm not gay, or even bi, but this much built up sexual tension means I would do ANYTHING for contact. What a shame my wife doesn't realize (and I've tried to tell her) what her attitude is doing to our relationship. A couple years back a gay guy tried to pick me up, and I declined. I wish he was around now. I'm neither as young or have as decent a body as I once had either, and I can't see me going out to find a partner for sex, but if a chance came up- I"D do anyone.
Commented Mar 4, 2013 by anonymous
Tell her to go to gym & have a figure the same as it was before.
Commented Mar 2, 2013 by anonymous
your wife is probably getting fucked by someone else meanwhile you are out there bending over.
Commented Mar 2, 2013 by anonymous
My wife is the same way. I take whatever comes along. I don't enjoy gay sex, but it's btter than no sex. I won't do anal again, but I've gotten used to blowjobs. I've had a few normal encounters, and a few gay encounters. Getting some outside the marraige allowws me to stay married. I've tried talking to her, but like your wife she just doesn't get it, The only thing I don't like are the flaming gay guys, The sex is the same, but the way they act sickens me, so I avoid them unless I'm really desparate. Luckily right now I have a housewife whose husband has been ignoring her for years and we get together every couple weeks, Still wish I was just having a normal sex life with my wife.
Commented Mar 2, 2013 by anonymous
In some states, that alone is grounds for a divorce. But a better idea is to tell her these things somehow. If talking to her in person doesn't work, try writing a letter or recording a video of yourself telling her everything you want to say. It sounds like in your situation, you need to do whatever it takes to get the message through to her.
Commented Mar 2, 2013 by anonymous
Talk to her. Once you start cheating you will always want more. Trust me. Talk to her.