Thinking the unthinkable
Posted Feb 16, 2012 by anonymous | 685 views | 5 comments
I have an 11 year old daughter and I find myself bombarded by thoughts of the possible things that could happen over the next few years. What if she gets into drugs? How old will she be the first time she gets fucked? Will she be a cutter or have an eating disorder? Will she end up in jail? What if she turns out to be gay? I have run all these things through my head at least 100 times. I think I could handle almost anything as long as she doesn't get hurt. She lives with her unstable mother and I'm like an outsider looking in. What amazes me more than anything is how many of my friends act like none of this stuff will ever happen to their kids. I don't know who's crazier, me or them.
Commented Jan 27, 2013 by anonymous
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Commented Feb 18, 2012 by anonymous
I understand all those concerns except for being gay. What's wrong with being gay?
Commented Feb 18, 2012 by anonymous
Your concerns are perfectly healthy for any parent. Unfortunately, nobody can protect his/her children from everything. All you can do is your best. Be a parent to her, talk with her about important life matters, and support her as she grows. This way if something does happen she will know she can count on her parent and you will know about it and be able to help. In the end, all you can be is a good parent and that is enough even if it does not feel that way. She is an individual and will eventually start making mistakes, but with good parenting it is far less likely those mistakes will be life altering. And don't forget about all the good stuff! Take pleasure in her accomplishments as you continue to encourage her development into a good woman. It's not all bad, there's plenty of good as well.
Commented Feb 17, 2012 by anonymous
chances are that if your daughter comes from a broken home and attends public schools, she will be very promiscuous and will use drugs, both of which can lead to associations with bad people and jail. if you dont even live with your daughter i dont know why you should even care about her. i would just pay my child support and then go into hiding when she turns 18 so she doesnt ask you for money. shes probably already having sex if shes halfway hot anyway
Commented Feb 17, 2012 by anonymous
Don't think too much negative about these things. Keep her away from these things & you won't have to be worry about her future.