
thinking of him
Posted Jul 24, 2012 by anonymous | 431 views | 2 comments
There is this man at work I am absolutely crazy about. We have only known each other for about one month. I enjoy every single moment that i get to spend with him. He makes me smile so much and is overly attentive when we have conversations. I spend way too much time thinking of him. Now, here comes the stupid part. Even though he has recently given me his number and expressed a romantic interest in me, I am kind of scared of pursuing a relationship with him because of his ethnicity. His family is from Egypt and he has been in the US for about 7 years now. In the back of my mind I think of all of the terrible things i have heard of Egyptian men. Their culture condones rape, they beat their women, theyre mentally unstable..... I guess I kind of fear that eventually my concerns will be proven to be true. I wonder if he has truly adapted our way of life and thinking after being here such a short number of years. Am i being unreasonable here? How do i overcome this? Has anyone ever had these thoughts before?
Commented Jun 19, 2014 by anonymous
Tell him what you're worried about and talk about it
Commented Jul 24, 2012 by anonymous
You have to propose him.