Thinking about leaving my boyfriend
Posted May 26, 2013 by anonymous | 338 views | 8 comments
I think I want to break up with my boyfriend. We have a great relationship. And I love him so much. But, he has no job, he's got a pill problem although he's been clean for a while now or at least he's making me believe that he is. We just spent this whole week together and haven't seen him in a few days, And I've noticed a pattern with him every time we spend time together then after he leaves he's all short and distant with me. I called him today after not talking to him the whole day and he's not making any sense and when I asked to elaborate he went off on me and made me cry. I think he's using again and also feel like he's using me for his advantage. I do everything for him, and pay for everything. I don't make a lot of money but I do what I can to make him happy. I want to leave him but I just can't because I love him and I'm just so comfortable with him and can tell him everything, he does treat me good but there are times he's just a complete asshole when I'm trying to be there for him. But I don't think I can handle his drug use if he is slipping, but then again if I leave him he will go back to abusing and OD again but the outcome could turn for the worse. And I don't want to be alone he's all I have. I have no family or friends. But then I don't want to be miserable in the relationship when he pops pills all the time. I just don't know what to do.
Commented May 27, 2013 by Lynn
You are a strong, independent woman. Don't let him drag you down with him. Leave him and get a real man who deserves you. And if it's because you're afraid to be alone, hell email me. I'd love to be friends. brittany.rye.ta@gmail.com
Commented May 27, 2013 by anonymous
Why don't you call for help? There are a lot of institutes anyway. I'm sure they'll be able to help the both of you to live a good life if you can't leave him.
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
LEAVE HIM!
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
I think I should distance myself from him. I know when he's using because he's a whole different person. He's my best friend and I love him and I'm happy most of the time. It's really tough.
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
I grew up in foster care so i feel your pain about being alone, but he is defiantly using again and it WILL suck you in and drag you down
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
You know what you need to do. Do It.
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
just leave him. put yourself first. if your not happy with the relationship leave
Commented May 26, 2013 by anonymous
if you're not happy in the relationship Then u should step up and do it