Thinking about changing whole life.
Posted May 24, 2013 by anonymous | 294 views | 7 comments
I've been with the same girl for 4 years, I'm in the army, and going to school for nursing. I'm almost ready to fail my run for the 3rd time, which would get me kicked out of the army. I don't like the school I go to and feel that I would be suited better to forestry, which I have experience in. I also have a heart condition that the army doesn't know about, so even if I pass my run, I truthfully shouldn't stay in. On top of this, I just reunited with a really good friend who now lives 4 hours away but who I used to have a mad crush on and I think I have a very serious shot at a relationship with her if I tried. My relationship with my girlfriend is ok, but things are not moving. She is dragging her feet because her parents HATE me because they are of the opposite political affiliation, and their daughter agrees with me instead of them. My friend has a lot in common with me and her parents love me. The distance isn't a big deal to me because I have a good income and can afford the gas to go see her fairly often. Right now I'm talking to her almost every night and she has confessed Everything to me that she has ever done. I just went and saw her a few days ago and she hugged me and cried. I wish I could look into the future and see if things would work out the way they are now or if I should change everything. If I changed one thing, it wouldn't be hard for me to change everything. Damn it, I don't know what to do.
Commented May 25, 2013 by anonymous
Go tell her that you like her! A marriage with in-laws who hate your guts will always be a sticky point. Go to a place where there is love. Love is the only way out. Don't settle. Get the best!
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
just do it! the worst that can happen is that she says no or isn't ready. If you're not happy then what kind of life are you living?
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
Tell this girl how you feel flat out in the most honest way possible. If its meant to be she'll feel the same way if not then at least you'll know. 5he hard part isn't the choice its the what ifs that follow.
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
Whatever you like you must do it.
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
If you think you wanna do it, and have thought about it numerous times in a serious way, you should probably do it. Why not? There's no point in living an ok life when you could easily live a great one. Go for it, and make yourself happy.
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
change isn't always bad... it keeps things fresh in life and in relationships
Commented May 24, 2013 by anonymous
Change can be a good thing.