hello, stanno. you're very welcome. i made that post because i mean it, you ARE a great guy and very attractive. i seen the pic and with or without the shades you still looked very nice. the way you hold yourself and can carry on a fun conversation makes you attractive in itself. if you have not found 'the one' yet that that is only because it is not meant to be at the present time. i am telling you and you must believe me, somewhere out there, there is a woman wondering the same thing as you, except she is asking herself, 'where is he'? when the two of you do find eachother it will be like fireworks!!! i KNOW she is out there waiting for you and you need to know that too. when i looked on peaceplease.com i was shocked because of how you described yourself here on the site. you honestly and truly are a good looking man. truthfully and personally, i would never even approach you if i seen you on a street or in a bar, because i would have thuoght i would not have a chance with you. you have that look about you. the too cool for you look. :) the problem with people today is they see a magazine or a television show and get what they think is 'hot' from that. in reality none of us walking around in everyday life looks like this. for one we don't spend money out the ass to stay looking that way. who 'normal' can afford that??? so now we have women wanting the perfect man, like they see on t.v. well they can hang that up. the perfect man to me is the man i love and loves me. what is more perfect than that?? my point being.... you are you sweetie, and that is all you ever have to be. the stanno i know have come to adore and always look for on this site is... a loving (when given the chance) fun, goodhearted, sweet, smart, hardworking, dependable, admirable, man. the kinda guy who would help a friend in need even if it was not at all in his best interest. a true friend! so what if you are not plastic? you're stanno!!! :D