The Son from Another Life
Posted May 21, 2011 by Amanda H. | 529 views | 4 comments
My first child is not my husband’s even though he thinks so. I had a super-brief fling with a guy I met while shopping for the wedding. I only discovered I was pregnant after the honeymoon. As soon as I had the baby, I knew it wasn’t husband’s but I couldn’t tell. I still haven’t and I’ve decided not to. The boy is now a teenager. Sometimes, it’s painful to watch them do father-son stuffs. Our life is too pleasant to destroy with a little revelation. I’ll never tell them.
Commented May 25, 2011 by anonymous
Yes, by all means, keep the secret and let it infect and fester within you until it kills you inside. You did it, you could at least cop to it to your husband and have some tests done to see if he truly is or is not the father. You aren't God and you have no right to decieve innocent people, which unfortuantely escapes the commentors here. Do the RIGHT thing and divest yourself of this while the damage can still be mitigated and then repaired. How would you like it if someone did this to YOU?
Commented May 23, 2011 by anonymous
Wow. FIrst off, F you for doing that.... BUT IMO you can't tell anyone now.. That would destroy lives. If they are happy, leave it alone. He is the kids father now, and that's all that matters
Commented May 22, 2011 by anonymous
Your husband is the real father in every way that matters. Keep your mouth shut; you've done enough harm.
Commented May 21, 2011 by anonymous
If you can't tell by looking at your son that he is not your husband's, how do you know for sure? Either way, I'd keep it hush hush as well. They have a great relationship and it's not worth turning your world and theirs upside down just so you can tell the 'truth' (which by the way you have no proof) Go to your grave with it.