I met this friend at school. We had a lot in common me and her. We got along really well. You know every time we were together it wasn't boring. We could always make each other laugh and smile. It was almost perfect, I was the geek (I'm into star wars, video games other geeky stuff) and she was the beauty queen (who by my luck was also a geek but no one really knew it unless you provoked it.). We just fit, but there was something in the way. She had a boyfriend. You know what he was a nice guy but he just didn't fit her. She had ambition and dreams. She was smart and well he....he was a bit of a polar opposite in that department. He wanted to be a stay at home dad and be at home all the time, I would think well what better way to achieve that then to marry someone in our profession. He didn't really know how to take care of himself and well even less her. She would come to me with her problems because he didn't what to do. Well I would sort of tell her "Why are you with him?" and things along those lines. Basically dissing the poor fellow. We had so many great memories in those months we had. We came to like each other a lot. But she said she wouldn't leave him for no reason, because it has happened to her and she knows how much it sucks. Well I respect that. Well our time went on together and I graduated first.(She was going to graduate a month after me) I went to New York and I talked to her one day, I met this girl in NY and I talked about her. She told me "Wow I dont talk about guys like that and I'm a girl.". I laughed and said "Well that's because you haven't met an awesome guy.". She took it the wrong way and well she saw it as me cleverly dissing her bf and she got mad and hung up on. I called and called and she told me she didn't want anything to do with me. I thought let it be, she will cool down and then talk. Well I let her be and I would text; no response. I would call; no response. I called our mutual friend who graduated with her. I called the day after graduation, she told me that the girl I liked got engaged over a break and is getting married. I played it off like it didn't effect me, you know? Well she just cut me out of her life completely, you know I want to text her maybe a last stand before I just let it go. Maybe she doesn't talk to me because she is trying not to feel something for me, I don't really know. Well she became the one who got away.