Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my question. For the most part it seems you feel that it may be adultery, but aren't sure if I should leave him at this point. With thanks I will give you the rest of the story to see if you are still unsure if I should leave him. Greg has been abusive to me on occasions. He once told me that he wasn't like most men. He doesn't believe it's wrong to hit a woman and is any different than it is to hit a man if she does something to deserve it or if it's in self defense. When I opened the file that had his cyber sex I was not only in shock to learn he was having cyber sex I was sick to my stomach when I began looking at the contents of the file and the photos in it. I have never thrown up so much the way I did without having an illness. I can't even begin to describe what was in that file without becoming sick to my stomach. . I have never stopped Greg from having porno movies or magazines which he didn't have to hide. Greg and I had a kinky sex life and have done some mild s&m but nothing like what was in that file. The cyber sex was of graphic rapes and of women being murdered by being hung, tortured, suffocated and/or beaten to death. Among the photos women had sent of themselves to use as a guide of what they wanted from Greg was a photo from Germany of a women hanging from a rope from the ceiling over her bed. You could tell that the woman was dead and that it wasn't a staged photo. She had done this during cyber sex with Greg and had someone take her photo to send to Greg as a keepsake of what he had done for her. Also among the photos were nudes of what appeared to be teenage girls. They may have been women that had young faces but their bodies suggested they were developing teens. I believe they were teens. The cyber sex that went with the photos was pedophile in content. There was also bestiality photos and graphic photos of animals being tortured. I will never be able to get these images out of my mind. If I go into this any further I will become sick to my stomach. There is a lot more to what I have narrowly described but it was bad enough that I saw it without putting these images into anyone else's mind. Greg showed no emotion at all when I told him what I had found on our computer. He claims he was just giving the women what they asked for so there was nothing wrong with that. I asked him about the woman who is now dead and the possible teen girls. He just shrugged. If he hadn't been the one to do it someone else would have so it's not like he could have prevented anything if he said no to the women. Being a religious person I felt what he had done and hidden from me was adultery. I don't care that he didn't physically touch these women. In reality his cyber touch was responsible for a woman's death and is murder in my Bible. Adultery or not, I definitely had to leave him for the pedophile and bestiality cyber sex alone. He had already been abusive to me on several occasions. There were already other problems with the marriage which I won't go into. This was what it took to finish it off. How could I be sure he wasn't going to become deranged as his cyber sex continued because he told me he wasn't going to give it up. What if he were to lose touch with what was internet and what was reality and harm me. When I told Greg's mother I was leaving Greg she told me I was overreacting as did Greg. I have no parents to turn to for advice. I would like to hear from anyone who still thinks I am a prude and should not have left Greg and that this all could have been worked out.