Stuck
Posted Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous | 215 views | 8 comments
Im engaged to the mother of my child. I love my child very much. But i don't nor ever have loved my fiance. The whole relationship was only a ploy to get revenge on the woman i do truly love, only one i have ever loved. But things moved to quickly. My fiance has no idea how i feel and i can't bear to tell her, as far as she knows i love her with all my heart and she is an incredible mother. I was always taught that you never leave your child (i never would) or break up your family. But is sacrificing my happiness worth allowing her to keep hers?
Commented Jul 21, 2013 by anonymous
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Commented Jul 21, 2013 by anonymous
its best to sacrifice your happiness especially since I come from a broken family. trust its worse for the kid growing up having their parents apart.
Commented Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous
*a repressive, unhappy father never helped anyone.
Commented Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous
with u not telling her there will be no possibility of mending the situation. with you telling her, there would at least be the possibility. the only choice you have is between a possibility now and a smaller possibility later. things won't go smoothly if you tell her now not at all, but the point is theyre going to get worse. make the focal point of it be, not that you dont love her, but that u didnt want to tell her because of how it would make her feel. just like you are now. dont make some speech of it, just state the predicament youre in and let the shit flly. thats the best bet youre gonna get. a repressive uunhappy never helped anyone. explosion now vs. explosion later. the only sure thing is an explosion.
Commented Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous
well your first mistake was trying to get revenge on the woman you truly love instead of just telling her how you feel so now all you can do is tell your wife the truth its kinda messed up considering how much she loves you but if you don't things are just going to get worst.
Commented Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous
Well you don't want to hurt her.. You care a little
Commented Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous
Ik i should. But i wish it were that easy. How can some one handle being told that the person there sharing their love and secrets and time with never loved them. what would come of my daughter? Im worried she would take her. Thank you for the advice though... Im just so confused
Commented Jul 20, 2013 by anonymous
that's a horrible situation on both ends. I would go with Honesty. .man up, and tell her how you feel.