eventually i got fucked by my big sis after she broke up with her bf :D

try to fuck her in the ass, she'll come down

Crazy. I guess death can do some terrible things to our minds and emotions.

I disagree with your comment that talking about it is a breach of family trust. # 1 - this is a totally anonymous forum that allows people to say things they can not say to anyone else. We the general public have no idea of the relationship between any of these individuals. To say that mom loved crazy sister more is ridiculous. For all you know, crazy girl freaked out because she no longer had an easy target for her abusive ways. Maybe mother was bailing her out and giving her money and crazy sister was freaking out and panicking over her own desperate life. Point is, WE DON'T KNOW. What I do know is that no one has the right to behave like that at a funeral where many gather to pay their respects to the deceased - not air a grudge.

To the poster below: Breach of trust within family members??? Are you serious?? This is not family! Family wouldn't behave this way especially on Mum's day. The sister who freaked out on me and my brother at the funeral also slapped my mum across the face so hard her hand was burning for a day.. Mums was 81 years old at the time! She did that about six years ago.. She told me she 'hit her so hard and it felt good'!! She's mentally unstable and needs to be heavily sedated and put in a straight jacket!! When my elderly father passes away I'm going to need a body guard with me to keep her off me. As for me being jealous of my sister, I don't think so. I wouldn't want to be anything like her and I'm glad that I'm a warm caring person not a f###ing freak!!

Can you blame her? She's just lost her mother. (As have you) her breakdown suggests a stronger relationship with her mother than you. The fact that you told everyone about her breakdown suggeststhat you are somewhat jelous of her, as you know she was loved more. Further, the fact that you told us about this is very very wrong, and is a breech of trust within family members.

Clearly your sister is not very good at dealing with her emotions. The stress of your mother dying was too much for her and she was lashing out. She was angry that mom had gone and she was taking it out on you two because you're her closest family. She didn't do it to other people there. Regardless of her right to be angry that mom died, she did not have the right to behave like that in public or otherwise. I hope she realizes how inappropriate her actions were and begs forgiveness. She probably feels all alone now that mom is gone and you 2 are not around. She probably felt closest to your mother since she lives here. Cut her a wee bit of slack BUT she is still wrong for treating you like that. Family is all you have in this world. You'll regret not patching things up.

sorry to hear that

Was this her first psychotic break?