Should I tell him?
Posted Jul 14, 2013 by anonymous | 370 views | 7 comments
I've been dating this guy for almost 3 months. We've dated once in the past but broke up because there was a distance issue. I met him through one of my exs. Now I live a lot closer to him so we see each other a lot. We're really close and tell each other everything. But there's one secret I've been hiding from him. He knows I've had sex with one guy. But he doesn't know about the other three. I was in a relationship with one of the other guys and the other two. One happened cause we were really close and we had talked about it while we were dating but never did and then we broke up. The last one was a drunk night. Drugs were involved on his end but I don't use drugs. I was drinking that night and we were at his house and I just stayed the night. His parents were home so he had to sneak me out so we didn't get to talk about it. But the guy I'm currently dating is amazing. And we've been talking about having sex it's his first time though. And I want to tell him about the other three but the last one happened while we were dating but before I moved closer. I don't know if I should tell him or not.
Commented Jul 18, 2013 by anonymous
Glad I could help. ^_^
Commented Jul 16, 2013 by anonymous
Thank you. :) I mean I'm 16 now and I see our relationship going somewhere. He's coming back from Michigan tomorrow and I see him Wednesday which is also his birthday. I think he'd understand but I don't know if he would for the drunk night. I don't remember much of that night. And I feel the same way. Your first time should be with someone special. But unfortunately I didn't have it that way and it kinda sucks. But that was great advice and thank you once again.
Commented Jul 15, 2013 by anonymous
Never talk to guys about other guys you've fucked unless he's explicitly into that.
Commented Jul 15, 2013 by anonymous
Uh. Computer messed up and commented three times. Sorry.
Commented Jul 15, 2013 by anonymous
You need to get a feel for him. If he is an understanding person, then he might be okay with it. But if you don't see this relationship lasting long or you want it to and know he'll end it, don't bother telling him. Bury those other guys in the dirt of your mind and let it be. I had sex at 13 and it was stupid. I'm 15 now and call me old fashion, but I think a first time should be special and with someone who really cares. Find these things out and then you might feel better and decide what is best. Hope it works out. =)
Commented Jul 15, 2013 by anonymous
You need to get a feel for him. If he is an understanding person, then he might be okay with it. But if you don't see this relationship lasting long or you want it to and know he'lll end it, don't bother telling him. Bury those other guys in the dirt of your mind and let it be. I had sex at 13 and it was stupid. I'm 15 now and call me old fashion, but I think a first time should be special and with someone who really cares. Find these things out and then you might feel better and decide what is best. Hope it works out. =)
Commented Jul 15, 2013 by anonymous
You need to get a feel for him. If he is an understanding person, then he might be okay with it. But if you don't see this relationship lasting long or you want it to and know he'lllend it, don't bother telling him. Bury those other guys in the dirt of your mind and let it be. I had sex at 13 and it was stupid. I'm 15 now and call me old fashion, but I think a first time should be special and with someone who really cares. Find these things out and then you might feel better and decide what is best. Hope it works out. =)