Should I have gotten married?
Posted Sep 15, 2012 by anonymous | 562 views | 5 comments
I kinda regret getting married to my husband, honestly things were better when we were just dating, everyone warned us that mariage would ruin things and I'm begining to think that they were right. Shortly after we got married our sex lives have become not existant, didnt even consumate our marriage that night because he was too wasted. And I feel that ever since we got married my husband no longer feels the need to attempt to keep me happy he just sits around the house or hangs out with friends. I'm begining to feel more and more like his mother than his wife, I have to tell him to do things because if I dont nothing will get done around the house or bills wont get paid or nothing will be taken care of. I have told him about the way I feel on many occasions but it seems he doesnt take me serious, what do I have to do leave to make him see! I want out of my marriage now, I feel so horrible saying that but its the honest truth. I have also met someone that I currently work with who is going through the same situation as me, and I find him very attractive and he me as well. I dont want to act on anything until I have come to a conclusion with my marriage either seperation or straight up divorce, which I dont think is too far down the road for us. I am just sick and tired of being treated like a kept person instead of a wife. I no longer feel love from my husband. I hate having to hurt him like this but its the only option I see that I have left. I am sorry for hurting you.
Commented Nov 27, 2012 by anonymous
Do you have any suggestions of a good book that my boerifynd and I could read together? We were talking about our quiet times the other day, and thought it might be a good way for us to get to know another side of eachother. I'm not sure if we're ready to take on Love and Respect yet, any other thoughts?
Commented Sep 19, 2012 by anonymous
seriously? Did you even READ the confession? Get off those meds. they're making you mental.
Commented Sep 18, 2012 by anonymous
You hate feeling like a kept person?? What, are you incapable of taking an equal role in the household finances? Are you incapable of doing housework? Are you incapable of initiating sex if you want it? Why are these things soley his resposnsibility? A marriage is a partnership, not an arrangement where you get treated like a princess with no responsibilty. Own your share of the relationship like an adult. Sheesh, women like you give the rest of us a bad name.
Commented Sep 17, 2012 by anonymous
Talk with your husband to solve this problem. Definitely there will be a solution.
Commented Sep 16, 2012 by anonymous
I understand. your story is very similar to mine. it doesn't get any better. if you no longer love him, it might be best to leave. He's taking you for granted.