
sex before marriage
Posted Apr 1, 2012 by anonymous | 631 views | 10 comments
Dear Father, It has been sixteen years since my confession. This is my first confession. I am sixteen years old and have committed many sins since my time on this Earth. The sin that I wish to confess to you right now is that I have had sex multiple time before marriage. I am not married and will not be for a while. I shortly thought of the concequences but was fallen into lust/love and didn't pay any notice to them. Afterwards, I would feel bad that I have sinned but eventually would crave it again. I feel terrible about it this time because now I have sinned again by having sex before marriage and possibly being pregnant. I am scared, depressed, nervous, stressed, and a complete disaster. I have been an honor student since kindergarden, athlete, musician, decent daughter, and have been a quite well behaved girl; except for my sinning...I don't believe in abortion for I know that is a really big sin as well. Please, I pray to the Lord and God for forgiveness...
Commented Apr 21, 2012 by anonymous
meaning what?
Commented Apr 21, 2012 by anonymous
Virginity before marriage is overvalued.. My first wife was a virgin when we married. I wasn't. Our sex life was a disaster. She never enjoyed sex and acted as if it was a chore she had to do. Our marriage ended in divorce. Not just because of bad sex, but it was a major contributing factor. My present wife and I did it like animals for a year before we married. So, we both knew we liked it.and our sex drives were evenly matched. We have been married for 25 years now and still enjoy each other's company in bed. She takes very good care of me and I return the favor. If there is a sexual incompatibility between a couple, it's best to find it out before marriage. I address my comments to the adults out there, not the adolescents posting BS fantasies on here.
Commented Apr 2, 2012 by anonymous
Tell about this to your parents. They will definitely help you & try to focus on your education. Rest, god may forgive you for your sins.
Commented Apr 2, 2012 by anonymous
Again no insight.
Commented Apr 2, 2012 by anonymous
Oh puhleeze...if she was that bloody religious she wouldn't be confessing HERE she would have gone to an actual priest already. I call BS...again...
Commented Apr 1, 2012 by anonymous
bullshit. Throw your religious guilt somewhere else. Maybe that pedo-priest hearing confession could use it.
Commented Apr 1, 2012 by anonymous
I agree
Commented Apr 1, 2012 by anonymous
No wisdom here.
Commented Apr 1, 2012 by newday55
Hopefully as you age and mature you'll come to realize this religious guilt does nothing for you. Use your beliefs as a guideline for life, not as a bludgeon.
Commented Apr 1, 2012 by anonymous
Its apart of beeing human im the same age as you..and to tell you the truth I probably have the same concious as you do as mine eats me alive to whatever lustful sin i undergo he will forgive you for the lord is mercy full and you are loved by him try your hardest to rid your self from the devil's temptation..i am trying to do this myself at this moment you are a good person but are easliy tempted as any mortal on this planet is..god forgave all of your sins when he created you..he knew who you were going to become when he made you and that is why you are here the reason i am helping you out is that i have the same problem as you do.. i hope i helped:)